#queer btvs

i have a queer buffy headcanon for anya where bc when she is human she doesn't understand sexuality so through learning about it and how it works she finds herself to be pansexual demiromantic because she has a lot of complications thinking about it but decides that because as she quote [as I'd think] "I'm Anya Jenkins and I was born on the fourth of July and American and Capitalist and I discovered I am sexually attracted to anyone who I find attractive and romantically attracted to anyone who takes time to understand me!  I don't need people to decide who I like and well, if they try to, i'll tell them to shove it up their ass!"  [Since Anya is really straight forward].