#queen babbling

Oh, my @simpingforjoel, you just know me too well and that I love such games. So thanks for the tag! 💖

🎵Last song | listened to: Medicine Bottle - Red House Painters (while writing Joel smut 🥾 (iykyk), I swear, it altered my brain chemistry.)

📺 Last series: Finally finished second season of Andor a few weeks back and loved it (no big surprise). Just fits the times so well, don't you think? 🧡🤍

🎬 Last movie: Project Hail Mary, my second watch in cinema. The book is in my top 3 reads of all times and the movie did not disappoint! 👎 (again, iykyk)

🏅Best thing about last month: Finally leaving my job and deciding to try self-employment. Wish me luck! 🍀

📚 Currently reading: Tress and the Emerald Sea. But "reading" is a far stretch here. I am trying. Let's leave it at that... 📚

📺 Currently watching: Wayward while doing my 10k on my walking pad each episode. 🏃‍♀️

🎮 Currently Playing: Okay... don't judge, I got a guilty pleasure with Infinity Nikki 💖 And I am on my umpteenth playthrough of Cyberpunk, but my first with the Phantom Liberty DLC. 🦾

👾 Currently Working On: my Japanese, finally taking private lessons every week. Also my eating habits. Though I am doing a lot of sports, I want to watch what I am eating a little more constantly. 🍱

🌶️ Sweet/Savory/Spicy?: sweet, always sweet 🍫 which is also why I want to watch my eating habits 😅

🎨 Favorite color: You know that dark greenish blue the sky takes before night settles in fully? yeah, that... 🌌

🤩 Current obsession: I dance pole for over 4 years now but only started heels in the beginning of the year and LOVE it. Dancing never felt so liberating 🍑

☕️ Tea or Coffee: Earl Grey with a generous splash of oat milk please. 🫖

🌐 Last Internet Search: hints for the New York Times Connections, because their categories are wiiiild... 🟨🟩🟦🟪

👀 Looking forward to: Japan! We'll be back mid-June for 3 weeks even though we actually planned to go in 2027. It will be our third trip and finally I feel capable enough to speak a little more fluently. Tokyo feels like a part of my heart lives there now, so it fills me with joy to be back so soon. Also, I am excited for Fukuoka, where we will be for a week, exploring the south of Honshu. Can't wait for all the snacky snacks (there goes me, watching my eating habits...)⛩️ 🎏♨️

I am always really shitty at tagging people, because I don't want to get on your nerves 🫠 but I will name a few (which does not mean you cannot feel tagged if I didn't tag you... See! Already sucking at this 🙈)

uuuuh I loved this, thanks for tagging me @simpingforjoel & @missadangel 💙 And I loved both of your colors so much, such a viiiiibe!

I gained quite a few over the last couple of weeks so I think it's time for a proper "Hi" and a little "who is she anyway?" next to a "so very happy you are here, you lovelies 🥹💕"

So hi. Welcome to the slowburn headquarters where I self indulge in the fantasies I see nowhere so I write them myself. First it was multichapter slowburns (also some with OCs in them 😱) then I felt comfortable enough to also take a leap and create more smut and dark smut. But you will always find both here: fluff, smut, dark settings, cheesy romance... it's all about balance 🙂‍↕️

I want everyone to feel safe and included here so always feel free to reach out! I cannot stress enough ✨️how much✨️ I want to hear and read from you! So send in thoughts, requests or simply say hello 💖

To get to know me a little, I created a tag game myself. So please, let me overshare with you and feel free to do the same 🤭

🏷️ name / nickname: Mina

🎂 age: in my 30s

🌍 country / time zone: Germany

✨ pronouns: she/her

📅 on tumblr since: forever (i think 2014) but writing and actively creating: july 2025

Thank you for the tags, you cuties, knowing I lovelovelove doing these 🩵🤍🩵🤍 @tateypots @simpingforjoel @missadangel @joelmillerpascal

last song: Teardrop - Massive Attack. If I could only ever listen to one album for the rest of my life it would be Mezzanine by Massive Attack. 🎧

currently watching: the third season of the Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader and rewatching Blue Eye Samurai 🩵

current obsession: my walking pad. I try to do my 7.5k every day and it really helps me to wind down and finally work through my tbw list 👣

currently reading: The Rainfall Market by You Yeong-Gwang, just started it but it's cozy so far.

currently working on: a new multi-chapter fic, yay! After ending Take a Sip and Day Dreams it feels just right to dive into the next one! More infos will follow shortly but this much can be said: our favorite DEA Agent in an assassin AU thriller romance...

currently wearing: Black baggy pants, a black top and Doc Marten sandals with my new Coca Cola socks from Family Mart while my sweater waits in my carry-on until it gets too cold on the plane. 🖤

last search: if I am allowed to have a cute porcelain sake set in my handbag for the flight (I am, yay!) 🍶

favorite flower: lavender, stealing it whenever it grows on the side, but never maintain to keep it alive on our balcony 🪻

Thank you for tagging me, lovely @missadangel & @paulyenvol6 🩷

Dreamgirl - Tanerélle

Written in Blood - She Wants Revenge

Hubris - Sevdaliza

Summer Song - Remy Bond

Medicine Bottle - Red House Painters

Perfect Darkness - Fink

Straight Talker - Eliza

Pet - A Perfect Circle

Low Place Like Home - Sneaker Pimps

Stole - Francesca Belmonte

I was at Pride today in Berlin. As always it is a place of love, comfort, equality and positivity. It is a protest but it is also dance and expression of what a world could look like if we accepted others as what they are: fellow humans with hopes and dreams.

In the evening one pathetic person steared a car into a crowd of people. Only because they feel threatened in a system that mostly holds them in a position of privilege.

That makes me sad and angry. But it should never lead to us backing down or stop fighting for those who need protection.

So know that this blog will always be a place of safety and allyship.

Love wins. Always. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

Hello love 🩷

Uh that is such an interesting question and yes, you are totally correct. In a healthy and functioning sub/Dom relationship it is totally the sub that sets the boundaries and dos and donts in the dynamic of the experience.

So technically speaking Harry and Emily should have a talk outside of their intimate encounters and discuss what their hard (and soft) "no"s are and most definitely if a dynamic like that continues you always work out a safeword for the sub to stop a situation.

Generally speaking: a Dom never - and I mean NEVER - talks a sub into anything. That is a very red flag in such a delicate dynamic that demands a lot of trust and vulnerability. A sub should always feel in control except they choose not to be. That is the actual beauty of it, i think. Having someone with whome you feel totally save to let go and let them be in charge because you know you can always leave that setup if you dont feel like it.

That is also why aftercare is such an important topic... but I am getting lost here :D

Hope that answered that 🙈✨️💖✨️ thanks again for your love and support! I hope you enjoy the rest of Emily's and Harry's adventure 🤍

Saw this game pop up on my dash by @missadangel & @milla-frenchy and was too impatient to wait to be tagged :D

1. Where is your blog title from?

Well... I like to write slowburn, duh :D And giving myself a crown was surprisingly very self-confident from my side, something I rather not show too much... 🖋

2. Latest movie? What did you think?

The Odyssey in IMAX. I left it torn... as a rather feminist historian some takes they took on that very ancient piece of (fantasy) literature was wild... but I liked it overall and there are a lot of strong scenes in it (Circe!!)... 🐽

3. What are you looking forward to right now?

I got at trip planned to Barcelona at the middle of August and I booked another tattoo appointment for October.

4. If you could do anything at all today, what would it be?

not be sick on the couch and go to my pole heels class I actually booked 🥲

5. Drink of choice?

Earl Gray with oat milk, water, Coke zero...