#psychologicalperspective

Dear me,

I know it’s been rough these past few weeks, but I really want to apologize to you for your careless behavior and numerous negative thoughts to you.

I want to begin by saying I apologize for not having confidence to fight for your rights towards other people belittling you.

I feel such hatred… I apologize for judging yourself so harshly. I’m sorry that I didn’t believed in you and taken you for granted. I’m sorry that I went against you and thought that you are not enough.

I’m sorry that you keep pretending yourself that you are fine. I’m sorry because I did all these things to you. I’m sorry for making your life difficult and that I didn’t tell you that I love you.

I love you from the bottom of my heart. I accept you, that’s why you haven’t given up and we’re still here. Deep from my heart, you are enough, and you are worth loving. You deserve all the happiness in this world.

You’ve learned from your mistakes, I know you want grow into a great person and I know you can. Don’t worry, I got your back and I’ll take care of you.

I forgive you and I hope in the future, you do.

Thank you for being you. Just keep going!

Sincerely,

Hey!! Wassup? Hows it going? Now todays blog is all about Psychological Perspective of the Self. In my opinion, this topic is quite interesting because it involves our own psyche. Ive once thought of taking the psychology course but it’s a lot of work and far too expensive. Psychology has always intrigued me because its so astonishing how our minds work and why some people tend think so differently and why they do such certain things so this topic comes close to my heart. So William James concept of the self is the me-self and the i-self. The one responsible for the thinking is the I self and its also called the pure ego. While the Me-self refers to the physical body. now there are three types; the spiritual which refers your sub-conscious and values & it requires introspection the most, while the social self refers to how we socialise with other people, and the material self refers to material possessions and how we perceive them like iPhones, cars, money, and so much more. Sigmund Freuds construction of self and personality is similar to William James concept but freud included the superego which refers to conscience and moral judge. The super ego balances the ego and the id. The ego, according to freud is the angel, while he refers the id as the devil. The self is the central archetype that unites all parts of the psyche. Can you imagine if every person in the world has no self? We're definitely still gonna be like wild animals running around and no conscience not even a sign of intelligence. According to Rogers, the real self consists of all the ideas including the awareness of what one is and what one can do. The ideal self is the persons conception of what one should be or what one aspires to be which includes ones goals and ambition in life. If ideal self or real self gets outbalanced then a catastrophe of one self will neutralise. That is why we should always take care of ourselves. And that’s it for todays blog, I really enjoyed writing this and I hope you enjoyed reading this as well