Hey. Hey, you. The people who have a strong preference for the explicit and smutty side of fandom. Youâre super valid and are doing nothing wrong by having sexuality be your main focus. Sexuality being important to you doesnât make you a creep, youâre not objectifying people because you prefer to explore charactersâ and shipsâ sexual lives and preferences. Sex is not shameful. Donât let anyone try to shame you for celebrating and loving sexuality. Sex and smut have been an important part of fandom throughout itâs whole history. You donât have to meet any silly quota of non-sexual fandom interests.
Thereâs still so much sex negativity in the world. People can have sex negative opinions without even realizing because theyâve grown up in such a repressive and conservative culture. Fandom has always been a place to escape that repressive culture.
And always remember, you donât owe anyone an argument or debate.













