A Tidbit on SaiIno and Why Ino is the Winner of thatĀ āCompetitionā
(Disclaimer: This is purely an argumentativeĀ āessayā about why SaiIno is a good couple. Any other couple mentioned is simply utilised for comparison purpose, I have no hatred against any of them because canon is canon and I acknowledge what has been made)
Ino and Sai are perfect for each other. Itās so sad that theyāre quite underrated, but the moments where theyāre together are always perfect, thanks to Studio Pierrot (gotta give credits where itās due). Iām irritated by people who insult Ino for marrying āknockoff Sasukeā, like, bruh, Ino got the BETTER end of the deal and itās C - A - N - O - N. In Boruto manga, Ino clearly said that she couldnāt imagine having a marriage like Sakura where the husband rarely came home. It implies that Sai is a devoted husband who always comes home to Ino, this is impressive considering that Sai is the director of ANBU whoās sure to be quite busy as well, but he doesnāt make excuses not to come home unlike Sasuke. Boruto novel also stated that Saiās only weakness is Ino, that shows how much he loves and respects her. Even when they have arguments, they make up pretty quickly and Sai even tried to reconcile with Ino by hugging her, how romantic is that? TT_TT Ino blushed so much after that, itās so funny to see XD Sai has come a long way since his days as the emotionless killing machine of Root, and Ino still adoringly acts like a teenager-in-love upon being given affection by her husband although they have been married for years. Their relationship clearly makes them better person for each other.
If Sai is a āknockoff Sasukeā for them, then I want him too! Who doesnāt want to have a husband who loves and respects you so much that he refuses to fight with you, who comforts you when youāre worried, who always comes home to you, and with whom you can raise your children together? Sai is clearly that person and more, he always appreciates Ino and thatās a figure she needs as a life partner. (And come on, heās not a knockoff Sasuke, the mangaka and animators even draw him differently now, so yāall can shut up about him being a knockoff Sasuke because heās obviously not).
We all know Ino is very affectionate with people she loves, we can see it with how she protected Sakura, how she gave Sasuke sunflower (that symbolises friendship), and how sheās willing to go for a mission to save Shikamaru and Sai. Some people take this for granted, Sasuke ignored her, while Sakura broke their friendship off at one point for the sake of competing to get Sasuke although Ino didnāt actually wanted to end it -_- On the other hand, since their first meeting, Sai appreciated her (even if it was accidentally) which then later grew to genuine appreciation after being saved by her in Shikamaru Hiden episodes. Why would Ino choose someone who ignored her, such as Sasuke, when she got Sai who appreciates her the way she is? Sai wasnāt even willing to leave Ino alone to get lunch when she got hospitalized in Sasuke Hiden, it shows how he was THAT devoted to her. We also need to remember that now Ino is the Head of Yamanaka clan and the Head of Konoha Analysis Unit, as well as owner of her family business. Sheās a very busy woman and itās good that sheās got Sai as her husband who is as committed as her to take care of Inojin together.
Now letās compare to Sasuke, whom some people often bring up when it comes to Inoās romantic pursuit and ālosingā from Sakura. IN MY VIEW, SasukeĀ isnāt a golden example as a husband I actually feel bad for Sakura for having to put up with that. Yes, heās busy saving the world, but couldnāt he at least come home once a year to meet his wife and daughter, or even, communicate with them more regularly? To train his daughter so she could be prepared for the threats of the world? And, I still find it weird that he is set up to train Boruto, but like⦠what about his own daughter? Heās been a missing figure during those years, the least he could do is spend more time with Sarada Ā :(Ā (Sorry Sarada sweetie, you deserve better, and no, this isnāt an Anti SasuSaku jab because I love their daughter anyway-- without SasuSaku, Sarada wouldnāt exist). But well, Sasuke finally tried to make it up after YEARS, and thankfully Sakura still had the patience to forgive him, thus, solidifying SasuSakuās relationship since their relationship works for them. This, at the same time, also implies that Sasuke might not be able to have a stable marriage with anyone else other than Sakura or Naruto (No, this is not a Sasuke diss, just saying that his shinobi obligation and personality are not easy to handle).Ā
I donāt think Ino would put up with SasukeāsĀ āworkaholicā tendencies, hence, thatās why Ino is better suited with Sai who actually comes home often because Ino wants a marriage which works that way. Imagine if Ino were Sasukeās wife, they probably would have divorced now, lol. So yeah, the pairings are perfect the way they are because they suit the charactersā temperaments pretty well. SaiIno is perfect the way they are too and Ino isnāt a loser for wanting to have a marriage life that fulfils her ideals and getting together with Sai who could provide her with that than any other men. We can even say that Ino is also a winner for being able to move on and find happiness for herself in her career and family life. In real life we know that moving on to find someone who suits yourself better is a good thing, itās the same case for Ino too.
All in all, Iām really happy for SaiIno / InoSai and Iām so glad that Masashi Kishimoto and team actually put some efforts to give Sai and Ino some moments that show their love in very obvious manner in the canon materials (yes, novels, movies, and anime episodes are canon too, so, shut up), despite them not being the MCs. SaiIno might start off as a crack pairing, but they later developed into a pairing who have significant romantic moments and they seem to be having the most physically-affectionate relationship from what has been shown (e.g. the hugging scenes in Episode 189 Shippuden and Episode 140 of Boruto). Ino got what she needed in her life with Sai, and Sai learned what he needed to have better relationships with Ino. Itās nice to see that SaiIno work together so well as a couple and I hope we can see more of them in the future.
On a side note: Letās not talk about that pointless competition anymore because itās very stupid to compete over getting a boyās attention, Ino and Sakura have become friends again, and Ino doesnāt even care about it anymore because she already got her perfect husband figure in Sai who fits her life. Sakura and Sasukeās marriage is intact and theyāre still together as well, so, thereās really no competition to be fought over anymore. Nobody wins anything because relationship is not something you should compete for.