#pro changequeer

ChangeQueer is a stance about how the world isn't black and white, and how people can change. It's anti radqueer and endo, but embraces how people can be redeemed and change ways. See the coining post for expanded info!

Cheesequeer is the same as Changequeer but with embracing cringe and being cheesy! See it's coining post for more!

About me:

🩵 I'm a DID system

🩷 I use I/me and We/Us interchangeably

🤍 I'm alterhuman, rat cambikin collectively

🩷 I have ADHD, suspected Autism. Both medically recognized.

🩵 We are Agender/Spikegender + Achillean

DNI:

Tldr; no dni, just be nice. Follow the "do onto others as you have them do onto you" rule.

Okay gonna be honest here. While changequeer is anti radqueer and anti-endo, I am okay with this blog being a DNI free zone AS LONG as those who this blog/term is against are understanding and nice. If you come into this blog angry and harassing me, I will attack back. If you ask questions and are nice, I will be nice back.

This is ranty, I'm sorry. I'm mad. I'm upset. This got long-

I'm seeing more hate for blankqueers calling them useless or saying they are enabling radqueers or that it's just more harassment.

It's not... You can have your opinions but.. If you say that a blankqueer label is "pro harassment" then go and spout hate against it. You aren't better. Look into it first. Clean queer is anti harassment, ethiqueer is anti harassment, moralqueer is anti harassment.

And I'm going to be woke for a second. If you call blankqueer terms useless because you boil it down to "it's just anti radqueer" then mogai terms and hyper specific terms are useless too then?

Blankqueers are for people who WANT hyper specific labels, like mogai. It isn't just "anti radqueer" and it isn't enabling radqueers by having a space to rant either. Because if that were the case then pro recovery spaces are enabling. Oh I'm sorry? I want to help people who want to change? Thats enabling?

I'm sorry if i sound mad, I'm tired of seeing people hate without even looking into things and ask questions-

Like please just ask us about it. ASK- don't just be pissed off and tall behind our backs. Blankqueer terms aren't harmful. How is a term about someones beliefs harmful? Unless it is a genuine harmful belief, like the radqueer term then it's not bad. Like. Please. Ask. I made this term AND account to help people, not be shoved out of a community.

I wanna say I'm pro accountability.

The first step to healing is acknowledgment and accountability, both are tricky but apologizing and realizing what is going on is important.

Last post about blankqueer stuff I swear and I'll try to be more positive I'm still just bothered by this.

All the arguments I've been seeing for being anti blankqueer is that "you don't need hyper specific labels just find one that already fits! Just use anti radqueer! You are feeding the radqueers!"

Isn't.. The queer community built on hyper specific labels????

Mogai, liom, xenogenders, xenoidentities, ect.

Are those not hyper specific? Do some mogai not by technicality feed radqueers.

Do some xenogenders not feed radqueers?

If a radqueer wants to make something they are going to make it my silly little label wasn't going to change anything.

I also feel like they don't READ still because while some labels are neutral harassment, some of us are anti harassment/pro recovery.

And that is different from being okay with saying someone should die :) we don't want that! We think they should recover and live and thrive! Not get death threats-

This goes for anyone- not just radqueers btw- my account isn't JUST built on that as I didn't know rad normal and that community when i made this yet people still assume I am just a rad normal clone..

I didn't make this account due to rad normals fame I just wanted to make a term for my OWN BELIEFS-

Blankqueers are separate from rad normal, stop comparing them PLEASE.

This is. Why? I really hope this person can see how this is harmful instead of putting a funny label to it.

Feel like you should be is the same wanting it, to a point, if you put a silly label to it. No you technically don't want it, but putting a label to it doesn't help? If you don't want it why put a silly label to it?

I get it's to cope but. I'm not going to say Im "cisgroomed" to cope with that shit. I'm not "cis[x]trauma".

I do hope these people can see how making these transIDs can see how they are harmful, to both actual survivors and themselves.

And to the radqueers that follow me, I understand what you do is to cope. But when actual survivors talk to you please listen to them. Also, things like your trauma and triggers should be private. Unless you are okay with them and have worked through them to the point they don't bother you anymore, those should be private. Please acknowledge how these kinds of transIDs can be harmful to your mental health in the long run.

Decided to be silly and make another blank queer term :3

Cheesequeer!

Everything that changequeer stands for but more "cheesy" or "cringe" aka more being yourself and embracing "you". No this isn't meant to embrace the bad. If I see anyone use this in means of supporting harmful ideas you will be told how that's bad and blocked.

Changequeer coining post

Symbols are 🧀🌈!

Hey radnormal community and those adjacent to it! Theres a blog @/radicalisted who is doing an "unbiased block and follow list of self proclaimed radicalists"

If you don't like being put on lists either block them or see if you've already been put up and request to be taken down!

I personally don't like lists like this as it can lead to unnecessary harassment, even if it's in good faith.

Can we not judge things we don't like. Blankqueers are not just a radqueer or Radnormal thing. They exist outside those spaces. It's just a queer stance.

Additionally: a lot of these blankqueers popped up after Radnormal due to different opinions than Radnormal, so people made their own. I also wanted to say some of us did not know of Radnormal or any other's before hand, I didn't know them! Yet I've been called a copy- that was on accident.

Please don't hate, just ask before hand, come to a conclusion, and have your opinion. However you can't tell people how to treat their labels.

We like blankqueers for multiple reasons:

1. It helps label our beliefs, simply and easily

2. You can share it with others and have a community with people who share the same beliefs

3. It helps people even find a community-

That is all. Just tired of seeing people judge every Radnormal and blankqueer term without even knowing anything about them first....