it’s annoyingly catchy though, i listen to it constantly and hate myself for it :3

if one person says no, then if the man continues having sex with her then he is raping her (past that point)? but that doesn’t mean he’s retroactively raped her. consent is continuous, i’m not sure how yes means yes links to the retroactive thing

It links to the concept of "retroactive rape" (which I admit I just came up with before I made the post) becuase I realized that under Yes Means Yes/ Affirmative Consent logic (as reported by Katherine Timpf), the man would be unable to prove consent for anything that happened, in the first scenario, beyond the last point the woman said "Yes!" before she said "No!". And in the second scenario, if the woman changes her mind about whether she wanted any/all of it the morning after, then the man is retroactively unable to prove consent for everything that happened, because she said she wanted it, but clearly she didn't.

And of course, the logic goes, if he is unable to prove consent, he is a rapist.

this is a fantastic alternative

http://imperialfloraldivision.tumblr.com/post/107180286535/a-mentally-ill-person-is-telling-you-not-to-use-a 

holy shit

this chain, take note of specialsnowflakesanonymous. why do people wanna be so goddamn different all the time? "i'm a person of color/gay person/trans person/mentally ill individual and i don't find this offensive, now what?"

like okay? and? literally nothing was changed by you not finding the thing offensive, except now you've got someone thinking it's okay to [x] thing other people from the culture do find offensive, because "hey these people from your group don't care so fuck y'all -@s three poc/two disabled/four mentally ill friends-"

like i see this shit all the time. someone from a specific culture or group writes about appropriative/racist/ableist thing, and you got people who aren't part of that group reblogging it and @ing their friend who is part of that group with captions like "[insert url] take out the trash" like . . . you think your one or two or three black friends saying "there is absolutely nothing wrong with this" cancels out an act of appropriation? what i think is offensive? get your soggy ass off my post.

england is a tiny country, I will probably bump into you on the high street tomorrow

I wish.

which means that I have an approximately 0% chance of actually running into any of the wonderful people I follow who live here,

(just like every other day that I've been in Australia)

M8