#preyspace

Katt and I used to be friends some years ago. I would say we were close to best friends. We both bonded over a shared interest in goth culture, music, and media. I identified as asexual due to a trauma response up until last year. It was something I had felt my entire life. Sexual interaction made me experience symptoms of PTSD due to my unfortunate IRL experiences. Katt knew this. She was fully aware. I also suffer with BPD. Katt was also very aware of this. Like I said, we were very close friends. We would call daily, sit in VC and play games, and were always together on VU. This was when she still used @Katt as her user.

Some personal things had triggered a pretty bad manic episode in me, and I always want to drink when feeling manic. Katt offered me a safespace. She said we could call, I could get drunk, and she would keep me distracted and positive so I could have a good experience and not something negative. Katt encouraged me to drink, and got on IMVU with me. She encouraged me to drink heavy. She started spamming ERP posts in my chat on IMVU. I left. I remained in call with her on Discord. She was on cam. She started trying to coerce me into having phone sex with her, and to send pictures of myself. I refused. She then exposed herself on camera to me. I ended the call and the next morning, after confiding in a friend about it, I blocked Katt everywhere.

I've been told by third parties since that I am not the first person she's done this to. I probably was not the last. She was supposed to be my friend, offering to keep me safe. Instead, she took advantage of an extremely vulnerable mental state I was in, and sexually harassed me.

Katt is not a good person, and no matter how much you may change from negative behaviours in the past, this is not something you can ignore.