Last time my fiance was over and we were in bed doing stuff one of the things I think about alot is when I had to piss and he pressed down on my bladder and I remeber putting my hand over his and pressing harder because ohmygod it feels good😵‍💫 it wasnt the first time he had done that but I think about it frequently. There's also been a couple times on call when ive been holding and he tells me to press down, and thats fire too, even if im doing it on my own it feels great, its just always better when your partners involved 🙏