Let's Talk About: Writing Children (Preschool)
Adding children into the equation when it comes to writing can be difficult for those of us who are not currently a parent or have experience with children.
"I want to have this one year old character… wait, how do four year olds even act? How do five year olds act? What the heck can they do? CAN THEY EVEN VOCABULARY? I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT CHILDREN!"
Well, lets see if we can find out.
Preschool Growth & Development (3-5 years old)
Physical Skills - Climbs walls. Walks up and down stairs, alternating feet. Kicks balls. Runs easily. Pedals tricycle. Bends over without falling.
Social Skills - Imitates adults and playmates. Show affection for familiar playmates. Can take turns in games. Understands "mine" and "his/hers".
Cognitive Thinking - Makes mechanical toys work. Matches an object in hand to picture in book. Plays make believe. Sorts objects by shape and color. Completes 3-4 piece puzzles. Understands concept of "two".
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--What to expect: Likes to do things by himself. Can unbutton and unzip the child’s own clothes. Does not know the front from the back or which shoe fits which foot and the child doesn’t care. Favorite expression is “All by myself” but cries easily when the child can’t do it. He wants to help parents do things. Refuses to hold parent’s hand even though the child must. Wants to walk in stores instead of riding in stroller. Develops sudden fears and phobias. Resists taking naps but needs one. Can control bladder and bowel functions, but still has accidents. By 3 and 1/2, child whines all the time. May stammer and stutter when upset or excited. Nose picking, fingernail biting, and tumbsucking reach a peak. Child also learns to spit. Favorite lines are “Don’t look,” “Don’t laugh”, “Don’t talk” which the child uses on parents. Prime time for imaginary friends.
--Needs: Patience. Time to grow. Remember, a 3 year old is a baby that looks like a child. Don’t force threes to be bigger than they can be at the moment. An enabling environment.
--What to expect: The "Out of Bounds" 4 is exuberant and rebellious. The child talks well and thinks the child is a big shot. Fours tell outrageous lies and are very stubborn. They talk all the time and mix reality and fantasy. They ask "why" in order to argue. They are bossy and defiant, "I won't". They refuse to nap but will fall asleep at 5:30 and wake up ready to stay up all night. They think up all sorts of ways to avoid getting in bed. At night, they are likely to have bad dreams. They can dress and undress themselves with little assistance. They eat too fast or not at all. They can now wash hands and face and brush teeth without assistance if they have been trained. They run ahead of adults and refuse to hold hands. Fours play feelies with other children and need honest information about bodies and babies. A fussy four needs exercise and then a rest. When excited, the child will need to urinate. When stressed, the child's stomach will hurt.Â
--Needs: Social opportunities. Small play groups. Props for pretend play. Art materials for creative expression. Tolerance. Parents with a sense of humor.
--What to expect: A five can take charge of bathroom responsibilities, wants to tie shoelaces, can dress with skill, can safely cross streets, needs to help with the family chores, and cannot be left alone. Investigates everything -- including fire. Eats more than ever before. When playing, makes up rules as the child goes along.
--Needs: Lots of sleep (no naps). Good food (no junk). Plenty of exercise (limited TV). Attention for good behavior. Training in cooperation.
Three Years "Goodbye babyhood, hello childhood"
Four Years "Growing self-reliance"
Five Years "Leaving the Nest"