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Weekly Affirmation! One of the major things I realized when things were going terrible for me, when I didn’t get a break, when things weren’t going the way I expected it or life wasn’t giving me a fair shot, was my language. My Language? Yes my language. How I spoke, the words I used and the constant phrases I would say to my self was my language and my language was all negative! See, we all affirm things, every minute of every day! And if we really paid attention we would realize how negative our language actually is. “I am going to be late!” “There’s no good men out there.” “The world is chaotic.” “I will never get the job I want.” “That will never happen.” “I hope I don’t get sick.” “Great things never happens to me.” “People that look like me or come from where I come from will never be wealthy.” Or “Bad things happens to good people.” All these are affirmation that you are sending to the Universe as if you were asking for these things directly and you are. When I decided to change my life, it was important that I changed my language. No matter the circumstances or situations, I do my best to affirm what I want not what I don’t want. While most people affirm what they don’t want and get just that! You can find out for yourself. Start affirming what you want and see how crazy people will think you are. I have even got slack from family members, thinking I was living in a dream world, not understanding that I was creating a dream world that I would be living in. “Life is good to me!” “I always get what I want.” “I am a money magnet.” “I surround myself with good people.” “No weapon formed against me shall prosper.” “I am handsome!” “I am Rich!” “People love what I bring to the table.” “Everyday is a great day!” “I drive my dream car!” Say this often and people will think you are crazy if you are not in a situation that validates it. But stay the course, watch what you say and affirm what you want. Because words are vibration and vibration is powerful! #richfontaine #powerofself #destinyonpurpose #affirmations #lawofattractioncoach #lawofattraction #audittsroadster #dream #author https://www.instagram.com/p/BoMgRGcgOZL/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=twd29vpmddb3

Who are you? What do you like? What makes you happy? What fills your cup and what depletes it? What are you holding on to that is stopping you from moving forward? What do you need to do that you haven’t been doing? What do you believe in that is not serving you? What should you let go? What should you do next? Sometimes we have a million questions going through our minds, especially on which direction to go or how to live our lives, so we end up looking outside of ourselves to everyone to find the answers but unfortunately they don’t have them. Your mother doesn’t have them, your sister doesn’t have them, the TV doesn’t have them, the bar doesn’t have them neither does your place of warship but You have them! Through your gut feelings, your instinct and your intuition you will know what to do but only after you start having a relationship with you. Most of us, spend so much time and energy getting to know other people lives, about their relationships, about their drama and about what is going on with them, that we don’t spend enough time seeing what is going on with us. Spend time getting to know you, dating you and embracing you. There’s many things about you that you haven’t discovered yet but if you take the time 30 mins a day just to be with you. You start to know you and when you know you, you will know what to do and who you really are. #richfontaine #powerofself #destinyonpurpose #success #motivation #millionaire #mindset #lawofattraction #affirmations #abrahamhicks #passion #loveyourself

Just Do it! What if I don’t have everything all planned out? Just do it! What if I don’t have all the money? Just do it! What if I don’t know what I am doing? It’s, Ok. Just do it! What if I fail? You’ll learn somethings on the way, so Just do it! What if I succeed and I can’t handle it? It’s worth finding out. Just do it! What if people laugh at me? They laughed at all the greats. Just do it! What if my friends don’t like me anymore? Then, they weren’t your friends to begin with. Just do it! What if I’m scared? Then do it scared. Just do it! What if Things like this don’t happen to people like me? Better reason to do it! Just do it! What if people hate me? Do it anyway! Just do it! What if I am sick? Do it sick! Just do it! What if....... Just do it! It’s better to have attempted to do it then to have never tried to do it. Because you are never guaranteed a win, but if you never try you are guaranteed 100% to lose. #richfontaine #powerofself #destinyonpurpose #wealth #justdoit #success #motivation #fitness #invest #belief #faith #power #powerlifting

Weekly Affirmation! Someone asked me once. When did you find yourself and I always wished I could tell them that it was in this flash of light or something epic but it was when I finally realized and understood one simple concept. I do not control what others think of me I do not control the weather I do not control the President I do not control the State of the Union I do not control society as a whole I do not control other people I do not control the Stars and the Moon I do not control the Universe I do not control the financial system I do not control the markets And I do not control my employers. I can only control how I think, how I speak and my daily habits. See I started to ask myself, “why am I spending so much time and energy focusing and complaining about things I couldn’t control and never will?” From there I just spent every day focusing and putting energy into bettering myself because that is the only thing I can do. Most people want to change the world but never start with him or herself. Aren’t you apart of this world? Isn’t it a collective? So why not do your part? See it’s easier to spread blame on to others and circumstances but it’s hard to change oneself. Once I took on the challenge of improving myself in all aspects of me, mentally, physically and emotionally, circumstance become less of a factor because I began to create my own circumstances instead of going of the defaults of society. That was the day I found myself! And it’s been a blast. When you can focus on yourself versus your team winning, celebrity drama, presidential candidates or even your crazy family. You will find yourself and not what others see you as. #richfontaine #epic #destinyonpurpose #powerofself #lawofattraction #wealth #success #motivation #loa #focus #loveyourself

Weekly affirmation!! Someone asked me once. When did you find yourself and I always wished I could tell them that it was in this flash of light or something epic but it was when I finally realized and understood one simple concept. I do not control what others think of me I do not control the weather I do not control the President I do not control the State of the Union I do not control society as a whole I do not control other people I do not control the Stars and the Moon I do not control the Universe I do not control the financial system I do not control the markets And I do not control my employers. I can only control how I think, how I speak and my daily habits. See I started to ask myself, “why am I spending so much time and energy focusing and complaining about things I couldn’t control and never will?” From there I just spent every day focusing and putting energy into bettering myself because that is the only thing I can do. Most people want to change the world but never start with him or herself. Aren’t you apart of this world? Isn’t it a collective? So why not do your part? See it’s easier to spread blame on to others and circumstances but it’s hard to change oneself. Once I took on the challenge of improving myself in all aspects of me, mentally, physically and emotionally, circumstance become less of a factor because I began to create my own circumstances instead of going of the defaults of society. That was the day I found myself! And it’s been a blast. When you can focus on yourself versus your team winning, celebrity drama, presidential candidates or even your crazy family. You will find yourself and not what others see you as. #richfontaine #epic #destinyonpurpose #powerofself #lawofattraction #wealth #success #motivation #loa #focus #loveyourself

I remember watching a movie scene that I thought was very impactful and was such a great representation of life and how we shift our energy. It was from The Divergent Trilogy. When the girl had to face her evil self and the more she fought, the stronger her evil self became until she realized the more angry she got the more it fueled her enemy so she decided to stop fighting. Instead of continuing to push against her opposition. She made peace with it and instantly her evil self, lost all of its power. Life is energy and what ever you put your personal energy towards gets bigger in your life. And whatever you resist persist. So, at one point I had to realize as well, whatever I was angry or frustrated at, didn’t go away, all it did was increase in my life experience. It wasn’t until I made peace with people that lie, people that hurt, people that corrupt or situations that are not ideal. As soon as I made peace with their existence, their appearance started to disappear from my existence. What is given shall be received. Even, if I feel justified in my aggression toward someone or something, it only adds fire to the fire, only when I add water will the fire cease. Unknowingly, we make bad situations worse from our lack of understanding that our energy and focus is powerful. When we make peace with our surroundings, that is the moment when our surroundings makes peace with us. It is just a reflection giving back what it is being given. #richfontaine #powerofself #destinyonpurpose #destinytuesdays #waynedyer #abrahamhicks #positivevibes #positivethinking #success #mindset #theshift

Your mind will play tricks on you! As soon as you want to be a positive and happy person. Life will through a series of circumstances at you so your mind can ask the infamous question. Are you happy now? Are you still mister positive? It is up to You to train the mind to only focus on what you want. To be happy and positive despite of. The more you can train your mind the more you are in control. And when you can control your mind. You can control your life. #loveyourself #mindcontrol #destinyonpurpose #richfontaine #powerofself #millionaire #lebronjames #stephcurry #motivation #nbafinals #legend #lbmat #lesbrown

The truth of the matter is this! I have been to many seminars and listened to 100 of speeches, read tons of books and listen to 1000s of audios of self development and it all comes down to this. Self-Realization. Who are you? What do you believe? And what are you willing to stand for? These questions are not ones you can answer in a split second. There not something that your parents, friends or employers can answer for you. The only person who can is you. Many believe their bank account is a certain way because of an outside circumstance, which is rarely the case, it depends on your level of awareness to these questions and how deep can you go inside to answer them? Same for relationships, health and happiness. A shallow mind produces a shallow result while a deeper mind produces deeper results. If you can only see the trees in front of you. You will miss the forest behind them and at the same time if you can see the forest in its totality, you can see not only the trees, but all of the leaves and barks it contains for you. In other words, your level of thinking, level of beliefs and level of willingness to take action will determine your circumstances. If you would like to grow your bank account, your relationship status, your health or your level of happiness. You must go deeper inside yourself to pull it out into reality. So, think deeper, breathe deeper, believe deeper, love deeper, engage deeper and be deeper. It isn’t easy but it is worth it. #richfontaine #powerofself #deep #affirmations #lawofattraction #loa #loveyourself #believe #motivation #success #millionaire #mindset #author #speaker #goodreads #reader