It is not normal or even healthy to be so obsessed with the way that other people identify, it is not normal to be so obsessed with what labels use to describe what is going on especially when it comes to strangers online. It is very concerning when some systems act like it's this sudden evil thing when another system finds comfort and happiness in their plurality. Why are you bashing on obviously healthy system dynamics? I can only assume jealously and that is not healthy.
Putting other systems down for one reason or another is just super lame and speaks more on you* than anyone else and it just a bad taste in anyone's mouth who reads it especially those directly impacted by the bullying.
I think the attitude also raises the act of fakeclaiming systems that aren't in 24/7 agony and pain (or don't have hatred for being a system). Which is worrying.
To repeat: It is not normal or even healthy to be so obsessed with the way that other people identify, it is not normal to be so obsessed with what labels use to describe what is going on especially when it comes to strangers online.
