everyone has two love tanks. everyone - whether they’ve discovered it or not. most people know about the main love tank which is filled by your 5 love languages - physical touch, words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service & receiving gifts. for me that would be physical touch then quality time and words of affirmation but only from certain people. but this second tank runs off a special type of fuel... one that does use the love languages but it all depends on who is giving you the love. for me that’s only fuelled up by him. it’s indescribable how but there’s that love you can only get from those certain people that just keep you substained. you know what i mean... where it’s cuddles from your puppy, a good hour or two just sitting and talking with your mother or your partners company. sometimes when you’ve been running on empty for a while with the main tank you need a good jumpstart from your second tank. more extreme cases you can only survive off the second tank. sometimes you can run on empty with the second tank and it won’t bother you at all. everyone is different. in my experience i need the main tank to always be close to full. when it reaches half a tank, it’s hell for me... you can then imagine me on empty... the second tank, the fuel in that one usually lasts me longer but when i need a top up, i need a solid 5 minute hug from him. but that’s when i’ve reached half a tank... when i’m on empty i need a lot more than that. you know when it’s been empty for a while because the other tank gets drained so much quicker too. both of my tanks though? currently empty.