#love languages

iwaizumi hajime & kuroo tetsurou :: loves to be close to you at all times. the gentlemen that loves pda too. likes parading around with your lipstick stains on his face and neck like the proud man he is. he definitely keeps his hand on the small of your back every time especially when you're walking, when he opens the door for you, in a protective manner. ultimate waist grabber too; grocery shopping? one hand on the cart, the other around your waist. he pulls you by the waist too when he wants attention bc he's clingy like that. cooking dinner? if he's helping, he still has his hands around your waist. if he's just watching you, back hug attack *nod nod*

tanaka ryunosuke & nishinoya yu :: loves pda too, is that surprising news? tanaka likes holding your hand, hand, hand at all times. slipping his fingers between your hands and he definitely does the thumb thing and loves keeping his head nuzzled in the crook of your neck and whispering random nonsensical things. he loves kissing your knuckles too randomly. noya loves your hands too but most especially when you cup his face and he would lean in and melt into your touch plus when you combo it with sliding your hands up and down his cheeks to the sides of his neck.

bokuto koutaro :: physical touch and quality time go hand in hand with bokuto. another man who can't keep his hands off you. this man pouts a lot and practically purrs when he's holding you (yes, he's the big spoon) swooning at how adorable you are in his arms. obsessed and literally melts when you touch him everywhere; the type that would hold your hand wherever it is on his body. loves cupping your face and thumbing at your facial features. forehead kisses!! he would admire you all the time and leaves kisses on every inch of your being–oh especially when he holds your hands and kisses every part and lingers a little too much on your fingertips.

matsukawa issei & suna rintarou :: they might seem like they're not the type to enjoy physical touch but that's only when they're not the one giving it. loves giving you back rubs and stroking your hair when you're pressed onto him. when you sleep, he prefers feeling your weight on top of him so he can cradle you, hand on your head while the other is on your back. that being said, they're great listeners and at comforting their significant other. when out in public, or whenever you're feeling overwhelmed, they would crouch down to hold both your hands in comfort, rubbing circles on the back of your hand soothingly.

kyotani kentaro :: more like physical attack jk bro calms down when he's around you. secretly loves throwing you over his shoulder because another love language of his is playfighting. ironically, he loves being the little spoon when you cuddle and that's because he loves feeling your body press on his softly. but when he accidentally goes too hard on you, he'd scramble to his knees, mumbling apologies, to just press his face on your stomach. he loves it. would literally die for it.

꒰ྀི১ ໒꒱ིྀ additionally! they love it when you do that hair thing to them—that thing where you would place your hand behind his neck, rub up and down and scratch up his hair or tussle with it gently. that's one of their very sweet spots and you can't tell me otherwise.

Subaru: Physical touch

For Subaru, physical touch isn’t something that comes easy. It’s the ultimate test of love. 

If you reach out to him, hold his hand, pat his back, close the distance without hesitation, he knows you’re being open, honest, and vulnerable with him. 

It shows that you’re ok with your thoughts being known. That you’re not afraid him. 

Sometimes words of affirmation??? 

You can reassure him of many things but most of the time he won’t believe it. 

But those rare moments when you say something undeniably sincere, he holds onto those words. Forever. 

Haku: Physical touch 

Haku is always close. Not by accident. By choice.

He’ll take any chance he can to be in close proximity to you. 

Surprising you from behind, brushing past your shoulder, and leaning in just a little too close. 

Every movement is intentional, calculated to get a reaction. 

Because he thrives off of it. Your attention. Your response. That flustered look. 

He teases, provokes, pushes just enough to see that reaction.

It’s playful but it’s also a test. He’s checking where the line is… and how far he can cross. 

It’s almost instinctive how much he likes being near. Likes occupying your space… and mind. Likes knowing that only he can make you react that way. 

If you ask him what he wants, he won’t hesitate to say, “You.” 

Zenji: Everything except Physical touch. 

Zenji loves loving and loves being loved.

He finds joy in every form of connection.

Any sign of appreciation, consideration, or attention, he cherishes deeply. 

He invites you to spend time with him.  Sitting beside him as he writes, listening as he sings, letting moments pass together meaningfully. 

He treasures gifts because they come from your heart. 

And he lights up from your words because compliments are a praise to his inner beauty. 

But physical touch? Even if he wasn’t a ghost… it wouldn’t define his love. 

He seeks for connection not through the body, but through the understanding of souls. 

Through emotion, expression, and ever-lasting memories.  

Taiga: Acts of service & Physical touch

Taiga’s physical touch is not soft and romantic but impulsive expressions of himself. 

Before he processes feelings, his body acts first. Honest. In a way words could never be. 

He doesn’t ask you to stay. He just grabs your hand.  Missed you? He stares– openly, a bit too intense at times.  When he wants to play, he doesn’t soften. He pushes, corners, teases, gets too close on purpose just to see how you’ll react. 

And yes– he definitely goes too far. He doesn’t understand limits. He has to learn them through you. Through boundaries.

Then he knows… you’re not so fragile. 

Acts of service:

Taiga doesn’t ask for help. He orders. 

“Warm up my bed.” “I’m hungry.” 

But when you start doing things before he says anything? 

Something shifts in him.

“Kitty-cat… you can read my mind?” 

There’s amusement and curiosity. 

Now you’re not just following him. You’re matching him.

You’re keeping up with his unpredictable and wild rhythm. And he likes it. 

Romeo: Gifts

For Romeo, love is tangible. 

He loves people with good taste. He loves luxury. It might seem superficial but to Romeo, it’s proof. 

It’s proof that you understand his world and frame of mind.  

So gifts matter. 

Not because he needs them. Not because he couldn’t get it himself. 

But because what you choose reflects how much you value him.

When you buy a gift make sure to check the seams. The ingredients. Its origin. 

And question: Did you choose something worthy of him? 

Just as he believes you deserve the best— he expects the same standard in return. 

To love Romeo is to love his beauty and aesthetic. 

Ritsu: Acts of service & Quality time

Ritsu values his time above most things. Because time can be measured, allocated, and optimized. 

He doesn’t want to waste his time on anything that doesn’t deserve it. 

So acts of service isn’t just helpful… it’s intimate. 

Organizing documents before the meeting.  Knowing what type of coffee he likes.  Already contacting the clients he had in mind.

He just falls in love with your attentiveness.

It feel like the two of you are operating on the same frequency, reaching a flow state where everything falls into place. 

It’s…nice. 

Then it shifts to quality time. 

At first, everything has boundaries. 

Work ends at six. 

Conversations stop. No more text messages till 7 in the morning. 

Until one day: “Oh, it’s already 6:00… would you like to continue this conversation over dinner?” 

It sounds logical and convenient. But it’s actually just an excuse to spend more time with you. 

After that, it seems that all meetings end up as dinner dates. 

For Ritsu, giving people time isn’t casual. 

So once he starts choosing you— he doesn’t stop. 

Yuri: Words of affirmation & Physical touch

Yuri thrives on recognition. 

He knows he’s the best but he loves it when other people tell him that. 

But more than shallow praise, he likes precise and deliberate acknowledgement of what makes him exceptional. 

He wants you to read his work on ghoul biology. Understand it. Engage with it. And tell him exactly what he did well. 

To Yuri, praise isn’t just validation. It’s proof that you see him clearly–not just as impressive. But correct. 

Physical touch: 

Touch doesn’t come naturally to him. 

Too sudden and it’s like a glitch in his system. 

But repetition can change that. 

If you make it consistent and predictable enough, he adapts.  A hand on his arm when you greet him.  A brief touch when passing by.  Small, repeated moments. 

Eventually, he starts to expect it. And when you don’t touch him, he'll never ask, but he spends the rest of the day wondering why. 

Jiro: Physical touch & Acts of service

Physical touch started as observation. 

He holds your arm to administer a shot. 

But his hand lingers even after he’s finished. 

 He analyzes the pattern of your veins, the subtle textures on your fingertips, the warmth of your skin. He keeps staring. 

Until— “Jiro,” you call his name. He does this far too often.  

But quickly, simple observation grows closer to desire. 

The deeper the relationship goes, the more Jiro wants to be in close proximity with you. 

His body moves near you and he doesn’t even realize it. 

When you point it out, he pauses, genuinely confused at how close he is.

His body just drifts where you are. 

Acts of service:

Jiro can be quite needy sometimes. He frames everything logically though. 

“Can you assist with this?” “Handle that while I finish this.” 

It sounds like delegation. But deep down they’re selfish requests. 

He begins to rely on you. Not for help. But for consistency. 

You become a part of his routine.