Hey oomfs AITA for being petty enough to secretly camp on the Horse Race Tests person's twitter and watch the lastest vids before my best friend streams them with us and our friends because said best friend has let their BPD put a bitchy fuckin' wedge between us and freaked the fuck out and started yelling 'NO I DON'T WANT CORVID TO WIN, NO THEY CAN'T WIN' genuinely angerly, in voice call, when I predicted the winning honse twice in a row by complete chance? Possibly. But they were petty enough let themselves do that first, and to let their (unmanaged, very intense) BPD splitting affect our relationship.
Further context: All of our friends except for one also has BPD and my best friend has been acting like they're an island with a burden we couldn't possibly understand about it. It's not like I don't split on people in my life, too. Of course I do, I have BPD. The difference is that I don't let my BPD affect my relationships and I don't let my agression during a split escape containment (venting to my partner privately until it's over, we untangle it, and then it's fine). We were playing with fuckin' toys. Like gettin' that pressed is embarrassing, bro. Writing this long of a post about it also lowkey embarrassing but they keep making themselves a problem and really starting to hurt our feelings. Also, we have already had multiple conversations with them to touch base mental health-ways and 80% of the time, things are okay. They're going through a lot, I'm going through a lot, we both have pretty antisocial mental health problems, its just that this shit keeps happening right in front of me.
