I know that some weeks I talk about medically related topics in a serious tone and some weeks I get a little more personal. This week we are heading into a personal topic as I am trying to come to grips with the fact that my dog Logan is truly an aging senior. I can tell everyone at work that every day your dog lives after reaching 12 is a blessing for most breeds. Sure, we expect the smaller ones to live longer and most will, but the average life span for most dogs really is 12-15 years for the majority of breeds as well as mixed breeds. Take heart, cats usually live closer to the 15 year mark or older, especially when indoors due to decreased risk to certain diseases.
Well, Logan is approaching 13 years old on April 30th and while he is healthy overall on paper, the dog is almost completely void of hearing(my nice way of saying he is almost as deaf as a stone!). He is probably the first one of my own pets who has had this much hearing loss in his life time. Yes, my kids have lost hearing, but not to the point that I had to go find the dog when I came home from work or I had to go tap the dog to let him know dinner was ready or we were going out for a walk. If Logan was not always under my feet at certain times of the day I don’t think he would know these things were occurring! Thankfully this is the worst that is happening to my boy at this time.
While this is basically inconsequential in the long run as Logan is not at risk for a predator catching him unaware other than maybe one of my two year old girls tackling him to play, it saddens my heart. My super sonic speedy dog is now a much slower, albeit still playful, old man who could use a hearing aid if they made them for dogs. Thankfully Logan can still enjoy walks, even with kids who want to hold his leash, and happily tags alongside for ANY outdoor activity, though I do notice him watching me for more physical cues than he would have in his youth. This I believe is truly the key to my senior statesman or yours. Help them adapt to whatever physical changes they are experiencing in their advanced years. If your pet is losing hearing, use more hand gestures, body language signals, and physical guiding by touch. If your pet is losing sight, try to keep the house organized without rearranging furniture and talk to them more often when outside of the house to help give them guidance and direction to prevent walking into unknown objects in their way.
I am trying to make sure I give Logan as much love and attention he needs while adapting to his new challenges. With work and children in the mix this has been a tough balance and I am certain there are days I do not meet the needs of a hearing challenged pet as much as he could use. It is a learning curve for us both but it makes me cherish the time I spend with him even more! I don’t know how much more time I have with Logan which is what truly saddens me, but I am trying to deeply enjoy each experience I get to share with him now so that I have the memories for that day when he does leave my side for doggy heaven. Give your senior pets a few extra kisses each day. Help them live happily for as long as possible while understanding that none of us can live forever and that is truly OK. Dr. Matagrano