Perfect is subjective
Being a submissive is always a work in progress. You do not have to be perfect, or even always good, to be the perfect sub. I’m thankful for that. If it was easy and “perfect”, that “Good girl” would not have the meaning and feeling it has. It wouldn’t be special.
Submissives need challenges. Completing tasks and meeting goals would not feel like accomplishments. Challenges are good for us although each and every sub is different and unique, what they find challenging will be as well. From pain tolerance to hard limits, what defines challenging and perfect may be different.
There is no wrong way to be a sub as long as it pleases your Dom. Let me reiterate. There is no wrong way to be a sub if it pleases your Dom. And that is why perfect is subjective.
