#perdevpt

”Emotional challenge”

*emotion is a natural instinctive state of mind deriving from one's circumstances, mood, or relationships with others.

-according to daniel goleman’s theory there are many ways that can help you to be a better person:

*self-awareness- know yourself ,your weaknesses and strength and make it as a challenge  so that you can able to manage your emotion.

*self-management-know some ways to handle it

*empathy-dont judge others physically you must also interact with them and learn to understand them

*motivation-set the things that motivates you;emotionally and mentally

*social skill-communication/interaction is needed

- The things that i’m doing :

*keep calm and cool

*have patience

*be positive always 

*hide your anger

*too much expectation can kill you

If you have a positive attitude and constantly strive to give your best effort, eventually you will overcome your immediate problems and find you are ready for greater challenges. 

*lead and follow*

”what is leader?”

- the person who leads or commands a group or  organization, 

- is a person who influences a group of people towards the achievement of a goal. To be a leader, one must have followers. To have followers, one must have their trust to their leader so that their goals will be achieved .

some characteristics that leaders must have:

* Honesty- if you make honest and ethical behavior a key value, your team will follow suit.

* Delegate- learn to trust your team with that vision, learn to trust your team with that vision

 * Communication- If you can’t relate your vision to your team, you won’t all be working towards the same goal.

* Confidence-keep up your confidence level, and assure everyone that setbacks are natural and the important thing is to focus on the larger goal. As the leader, by staying calm and confident, you will help keep the team feeling the same

* Creativity- As a leader, its important to learn to think outside the box and to choose which of two bad choices is the best option.

“My kind of love”

Its normal for girls to set standards because this c an help them satisfy of what they want.They want of a guy that ca n always understand their personality.I usually set standards for guys because according to our teacher girls dont have standards are cheap.My standards for the guys are mentioned above.

According to Robert Sternberg  who explained the triangular theory of love intimacy, passion  and commitment.Robert  describe many kinds of love whom he categories it according to the components it does have:(many kinds but i’ll just mention at least 3)

*fatuous love  - can be exemplified by a whirlwind courtship and marriage in which a commitment is motivated largely by passion, without the stabilizing influence of intimacy.

*consummate love- is the complete form of love, representing the ideal relationship toward which many people strive but which apparently few achieve. Sternberg cautions that maintaining a consummate love may be even harder than achieving it.

*Empty love-Sometimes, a stronger love deteriorates into empty love, in which the commitment remains, but the intimacy and passion have died. In cultures in which arranged marriages are common, relationships often begin as empty love.