#peide

Hello every one here, how are you doing. Weare glad to have this opportunity to join Tumblr and we hope we shall be great friends. We are proud trans womans residing in Kenya.

I wanted to post something about the struggle of coming out (as asexual or somewhere on that spectrum) bc I could have sworn I'd told someone once and their response was basically "you just have to meet the right person and you'll want sex" but I couldn't easily find the conversation so now I don't want to say that story but I still have the difficulty of trying to tell anyone bc like no one gives a shit about it and whenever a guy has some weird interest in me (weird as in its super random and I'm in no headspace for random guys to try and hit on me) I have to really struggle through the whole conversation on sex and how I'm never interested in it and don't want it but I feel like I can't just go "oh I don't want sex bc im asexual" bc then they'll probably go "I bet I could make you enjoy it" like dude no that's not how sex works okay just leave me alone