#parentalalienatingbehaviours

Alienating parents will sometimes use other electronic devices logged in using the child's Apple ID and send iMessages on the child's behalf to the targeted parent to make it look like the child is sending the message. The alienating parent will then delete the message from the child's device, so the child is unaware this is happening. In moderate to severe alienation situations, the child goes along with it to protect their alienating parent and say they sent it, or the child will send it themselves after being worked up. Alienated children will sometimes send a friendly response to the targeted parent hoping they sent it in private. They then delete the message from their device, so the alienating parent doesn't see them showing the targeted parent love. Unknowingly they might have someone watching their every move. Their anxiety increases when the targeted parent starts responding lovingly with excitement. A challenging situation to navigate. What if the alienating parent sees the evidence? The child withdraws and thinks twice about ever sending another message again. Amanda Sillars #parentalalienatingbehaviours #parentalalienation #coercivecontrol www.amandasillars.com https://www.instagram.com/p/CnxGF1QSAm99-pscQoACaO00j08tnDhyh6hhi00/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

PETITION to legislate against Parental Alienating Behaviours ✅ www.Change.org/ParentalAlienation Coercive control is when someone strategically uses various behaviours to create dependency and control of another person. Through the use of these behaviours, the coercively controlling person creates a false world of confusion, fear and contradiction. Over time, coercively controlling behaviour erodes the other person’s sense of self and confidence. These behaviours are at the heart of parental alienation. #coercivecontrol #coerciveconversion #invisiblechains #parentalalienatingbehaviours #childabuse #familyviolence Quote: "Parental Alienating Behaviours (PAB's) are coercive conversion of a child's mind. PAB's corrupt the child's reality, toys with their emotions and attacks their sense of control and identity. This form of manipulation and abuse converts the child's thoughts and feelings from loving a parent into hating or fearing, then rejecting them. The converted child accepts full responsibility for their decisions and actions, not realising what is going on." ~ Amanda Sillars https://www.instagram.com/p/CXvqA3irqIrnhWyU94BTT3cB7btqML_njtzDpg0/?utm_medium=tumblr