#outside the binary

yeah existing outside the binary has its perks like how i dont feel any of the social pressures you guys struggle with but also that doesn't make me less trans and it doesn't mean people aren't transphobic to me in fact i get transphobia from every possible direction AND exorsexism from binary folks including queer ones and its not fun bc when you try and say something is binary centric you get told that you are invalidating the struggles of trans people for saying gender a social construct

My college has these things called service orgs which are kinda like frats/sororities but the whole point of them is to do community service type stuff and then also have a social component. Some are co ed, most aren't. I've been dying to join this org called Marians whose focus is women and children and they have a feminist sort of ideology thing goin on and I feel like I'd meet awesome people there. But I just realized they probably wouldnt accept me because I'm nonbinary.