what books did you buy?? have you read anything good lately? i'm always looking for new things to read! (and i also have a book buying problem..)
I bought āWhere The Crawdads Singā by Delia Owens for my friend, and a picture-book for my godson, and then for myself I āaccidentallyā bought Fleaās memoirĀ āAcid For The Childrenā and Megan Phelps-Roperās memoirĀ āUnfollowā about leaving the Westboro Baptist Church. Random purchases. I should have resisted.Ā
My mum gave meĀ āOlive, Againā by Elizabeth Strout at Christmas. Iāve read a couple of Elizabeth Stroutās books before and really liked them (and love how they are bound and printed)
The last couple of books Iāve read wereĀ āYou Donāt Have To Say You Love Meā by Sherman Alexie andĀ āThree Womenā by Lisa Taddeo. Iām kind of conflicted about both of them. I loved parts of them, and other aspects jarred with me.
I picked the Sherman Alexie book up in NYC when I was there a few weeks ago. Iād never heard of him though I believe heās very well established in the States. Heās a Spokane/Couer dāAlene American and the book is a memoir of growing up on a reservation. and coming to grips with his relationship with his mother after her death. Itās written in both prose and poetry. Itās sometimes really, really funny, sometimes heartbreaking, mostly angry. I liked it, it was really interesting and blunt and brutal.Ā
After I read it I googled Alexie because I was interested in his previous works and his reputation, and was horribly disappointed to see that he had been accused of sexual harassment by several women the year after the book was published, and admitted fault. That sort of soured my feelings about it. The brutal āhonestyā of his memoir had limits, clearly.
Iām still thinking about āThree Womenā, I only finished it yesterday. I spent the first half of the book slightly irritated. The writing is often bad, sloppy. The author claims that the stories belong to the three women who shared them with her, butĀ she self-inserts herself frequently in a way that kept taking me out of the story. I felt like it was condescending at times. But there are definitely passages that feel very real, raw and recognisable. The whole book is kind of a demand for understanding, like -Ā look into these womenās interior worlds, see what they grapple with and how they suffer, and donāt judge. I dunno if Iād recommend the book to men first, or to other women. Iām not sure if Iād recommend it at all actually, other than to be able to discuss it with someone else. Iāll keep mulling on it!
Iāve just started Trust Exercise by Susan Choi.