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I honestly can't say I have had a worse 'first message' in my life than this one. I don't know this person and have never talked to him before EVER! He contacted me out of the blue. He is 27 and is in Iowa and I am in Michigan. This is seriously the message and in full not edited...

Msg: For every guy that ask you for anal on here, I will take one dick in the ass. Deal?

Who the fuck writes THAT as a first contact?? I honestly had to reply and I asked why did he send that to me? If he wanted something in his butt it does not depend on my participation. I said we would never meet and it sounded childish. Get this, he replied "That's why I wrote it." I asked him if he wrote it because it sounded childish? He replied, "No, because we will never meet."

I can't believe it every time I get one of these. I am not sure why so many men do this, but too many do. This happens on Twitter, Facebook, and just about all social media platforms too. This man is 1000 MILES away. Yes you read that correctly, 1000 MILES away. I will remind you that my profile says in no uncertain terms, "I am NOT available! DO NOT contact me for meetings or dates! I have what I want and am happy." The photo I have up of me says, "No longer available." That can't be any clearer right? Enter, copy/paste message guy:

MSG: So sorry to infringe on your privacy,Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw yours,it was more than words could explain.The charming profile is resistible,though a little personal message but your look tells a lot about a nice person...so i had to drop a message to the charming person with this great profile.Just want to know you better and be a friend or more. Hope to hear from you sometime.. Carlos Xxx

Okay, so he apologizes and then proceeds to ignore everything about me. If the picture is worth a thousand words the three words of NO LONGER AVAILABLE should have spoke volumes, but you see he never READ the photo or the profile obviously. He 'had to" write me and the comment of "this great profile" is just laughable. He wants to get to know me better or be a friend.. OR MORE! Of course, that 'or more' is have sex with me. It doesn't matter that "I" am not available and NOT interested in meeting someone because I am with someone, he wants to have sex with me so I therefore should cheat and be a whore. I am sorry, but to think that asking me to be a cheating whore is NOT a compliment. It is selfish and rapey to me. I did write him back before blocking him and not only pointed out how much of a fucking jerk he looked like with that, but how insulting it was to think I would go 1000 miles to let him use me like a whore. I wished him that he would find a woman he really loved and she would cheat on him and see how he liked it and that it would happen 10 fold over. I also wished him nothing but men to contact him as he specifically wrote "NO MEN" on his profile in bold caps. I have nothing against gay people, but if you go out of your way to write in YOUR profile no men and then contact someone who specifically said do not contact me for meetings or dates then I hope you get nothing but the messages YOU don't want and see how you like it.

I don't think I will EVER understand why so many men think women are so stupid let alone....he is in Pennsylvania and I am in Michigan. My profile IS clear stating in the very first line 'I am not available, do not contact me for meetings or dates. I have what I want and am happy.' Do you have any idea how freaking ignorant you look to send this shit to someone who is NOT available and not looking to meet anyone as they are IN a relationship?? I just don't get WHY you folks do this and assume we are all going to fall for fake compliments when it is so obvious you did NOT read the profiles at all.

MSG: WOW WOW WOW, you're such a beautiful hot woman, and no man in his right sense would go pass your profile without saying i, i know i might be late as you must have gotten a lot of attention that you needed on here, but i would appreciate if i get a reply back from you and i hope we could get to text much as i don't get on this site often, i really would be looking forward to read back from you and i would appreciate if you send me a text to this number so we can get to chat more and talk over the phone (xxx) xxx-xxxx... I would be looking forward to read from you on my phone. enjoy the rest of your day and have a lovely night rest.

So you ASSUME I am going to say "wow wow wow" because you thought I was so hot and then drop everything in my life to respond to you?? It is even on the photo that I am NOT looking and this guy has been here since 2017!!! Why he hasn't figured out that copy/paste messages don't work yet I don't know, but aside from that he is in PENNSYLVANIA and I am in MICHIGAN!!! I am not desperate for a man to the point of I go to another state nor do I want someone like that coming HERE!! I am WITH someone so your supposed compliment actually equates to you think I am a cheating whore. That also means you think you are going to get a quick romp in the hay then disappear after you got what YOU wanted. Maybe some on here want that, but I DO NOT and my profile reflects it.

I say that term, man, lightly.  Not only did I get this message totally unsolicited from a 52 year old stranger to me, there was no prior contact at all, he is 697 miles away he writes...sends this to me.... MSG: (user name Thickandsweet158) - Love your pic let’s get together you will luv my cock in you.

Um.... HE somehow knows I will ‘luv’ HIS cock in me???  So the man I am with doesn’t matter and his penis is worthless compared to his???  OH yeah let me state that Mr. Thickandsweet has one photo on his profile.... a close up of his penis so close I could see down his urethra.  That is so NOT appealing at all.  ALL MEN have a dick, not BEING a dick is the trick.  At 697 MILES away I am not sure how he thinks this is going to happen.  I have NO intention of rushing to Georgia from Michigan where I am, nor do I want him coming here!!!  WTF people.  What is wrong with you that you send something like that and just shove your penis all over the internet like that and think women will want you???  

I did write back and I asked him if his mother taught him to treat women like that.  I also noted that if he had a daughter or a sister to tell THEM to let men from other states that they know nothing about have sex with them whether they are married or not or like the guy or not.  Oh yeah, they know nothing about him other than he has a dick and is horny.

Fellas.. porn is not real life.  Walk into a club/bar or anywhere for that matter and whip out your dick and tell a woman how she will ‘luv’ having it in her and see how long it takes for the police to arrive and arrest your ass for lewd and lascivious behavior.  I don’t know anyone that likes having strangers shove a dick in their face and say you will ‘luv’ it inside you.  Blocked and deleted!!  Jesus what is wrong with people today that they think this is okay behavior.   

I was thinking THAT when I had this conversation I just had.  I do not WANT to have conversations hence my profile stating "NO LET'S CHAT," but I just had to get this person in the IM when I saw the message they wrote me.  I say they as it was a couple's profile, but I am pretty sure this was the man talking if it was a couple's profile.  Let me give you this minor recap first.  My profile CLEARLY stays, "NO LET’S CHAT.. NO LET’S MEET..  NO LET’S BE FRIENDS!!  I am here for BLOGGING ONLY!!  Even with that the majority don't get it, but that is a different blog.  lol For THIS blog keep that in mind as I now show you the message I received:

MSG: love your profile. My name is Rxxx. My Husbands name is Mxxx. we are looking for exactly what you are, sex. i would love to watch you play with my husband. thats it. he does have a great personality, and is a gentleman.i

NOW.... this is THEIR profile and I have edited it out to make it shorter.  This is all you need for this blog:

Introduction:  we are respectful , kind and enjoy sex with the righ. and single girl either for sex with my husband, or a threesome

My Ideal Person: Respectful, hasn't had multiple partners, ect.

OKAY... I see lots of RESPECTFUL's in there, but I don't see where we are looking for the same thing.  Not even close!!!  So now you get why when I saw that they were on the IM I just HAD to do this.

I asked to be sure if they wrote me stating they were respectful and loved my profile and we are looking for EXACTLY the same things??? '

REPLY: YES, that was us and I remembered it well.

(My commentary here....remember it Well???)

ME: You didn't even READ my profile as if you did you would know just how STUPID you look right now.

REPLY: How so?

ME: You can't possibly expect me to believe you read it.  What are WE looking for that is the same??  I clearly state in MY profile NO LET'S CHAT, NO LET'S MEET, NO LET'S BE FRIENDS.  BLOGGING ONLY! I don't get how you could possibly think WE are looking for the same things after reading YOUR profile.  Had you READ it you would know you look EXTREMELY stupid right now.

REPLY: Oh I am sorry, I didn't think it meant that.

ME:  WTF???  How do you think that NO LET'S CHAT means let's chat?  How do you think that NO LET'S MEET means let's meet?  How do you think NO LET'S BE FRIENDS means let's be friends?  How the fuck do you get to that??

REPLY: I am sorry you are very angry and not good enough for my husband.  I used to really like you, but now I have unfriended you.

ME: ???? WE ARE NOT FRIENDS!!  I have never had you in my network and don't intend on it now either.  YOU are not good enough for ME to make ME change my preferences?  HOW are you respectful shoving yourself where you are NOT wanted???  There is something seriously wrong with you if you believe YOU are so terrific someone would change their preferences for you.

REPLY: I didn't ask you to change anything.  I didn't ask you to be my friend I got straight to the point.

ME:  Ummm..yeah ya did.  YOU wanted me to change NO LET'S MEET to meet YOU!!  It may be straight to the point, but it is IGNORING MY PROFILE!!  That is NOT respectful and YES, I am FURIOUS at people that IGNORE MY PROFILE and think it is okay.  How would you like it if just shoved themselves at you and asked you to do something YOU didn't want to do and expect you to do it???  You are seriously fucked up if you don't get what you just did.

REPLY: I am not talking like you are.  I am a nice person.

ME: YOU ARE NOT NICE WHEN YOU IGNORE A PROFILE AND SHOVE YOURSELF WHERE YOU ARE NOT WANTED!!!  I didn't approach you, YOU approached me and expect me to change MY wants so you can use me for a fuck and then think "I" am disrespectful for NOT wanting to do that and being angry you violated my space??  WTF!!!

REPLY: As I said I misunderstood your profile.  I don't understand why you can't give a person a chance.

ME: GIVE YOU A CHANCE??  SERIOUSLY????  NO MEANS NO GODDAMNED IT!!!  I have NO intentions of changing what "I" want so YOU and YOUR supposed husband can use me as a disposable fuck hole.  GROW THE FUCK UP!!

END OF CONVERSATION

Now I just am supposed to say What was "I" thinking and now change my desires so they can use me for a fuck that "I" don't even want??  Just how fucking SELFISH is that on top of disrespectful and rude!!????!!!????

You know folks, I keep stating that THIS IS WHY women don't answer messages and IM's.  This is WHY those assholes can't get laid!!!  We are each here for our OWN reasons and to believe that everyone is here for the SAME THING is just plain fucking LUDICROUS as well as IGNORANT no matter who you are.  I get this is seen as a sex site, but that doesn't mean that YOU (no matter who the 'you' is) get to choose whomever YOU want and that person is supposed to just do what YOU want.  Think about it, when someone you don't like, possibly you are a straight man and a gay man contacts you, YOU should just stop everything for HIM and let HIM do what HE wants and you don't count the same as you are trying to project on everyone else.

PROFILES ARE WRITTEN FOR A REASON AND IF YOU JUST IGNORE THEM YOU ARE ASKING TO BE REJECTED AND GET BASHED IN THE HEAD FOR LOOKING FUCKING STUPID!!!! Why would anyone WANT to be rejected???  Playing the numbers and just contacting everyone HOPING ONE person out of that 100 or so WILL LET YOU use them for something they don't want is just plain fucking WRONG!!  You are instead turning off the other 99 people that are now getting pissed off at the number of you jerks that do this as it isn't JUST YOU.  There is a plethora of piss ants that don't care about anything but getting some pussy and they lie and shit to get it.  So now the women don't answer messages, ignore them all or most of them, and the GOOD MEN PAY THE PRICE FOR IT!!!

Just fucking stop with the copy/paste messages of "I loved your profile" if you absolutely still feel like being an annoying piece of shit and send a message anyway especially if you DID NOT READ IT!!!  You look twice as fucking bad and like a loser.

 Every time I get one of these from a guy I just shake my head and wonder why anyone would set themselves up for rejection like this.  I get you don’t want to write lots on a first message and it is difficult knowing that others are writing as well, but to not even READ the profile before you send that message is asking to be rejected.  Let me start with the message I received and go from there.

44 year old man, first message:  Your profile was cool I would definitely enjoy getting to know you better if your interested let’s talk and see what we have in common.

My profile is cool?  Hmmm.. last I looked it says “NO let’s meet, NO let’s chat, NO let’s be friends!! I am here to blog ONLY and I am NOT looking to meet anyone.  Please do not contact me looking for meetings or dates.”

Now, don’t you think it is stupid to say that this profile is cool??  Then to follow it with HE would enjoy getting to know me better and if “I” am interested in talking let US see what WE have in common, is just plain IDIOTIC!!  I don’t care what HE enjoys, I am not here for him.  “I” am NOT going to contact him as I am NOT INTERESTED in ANYONE, I am NOT LOOKING!! WE have nothing in common and “I” don’t ignore people’s profiles and shove myself where I am not wanted.  So I actually wrote that back to him.  I told him I wouldn’t block him yet as I just couldn’t wait to see his reply.  Well , I got one...

His reply: Damn you mean as fuck but ok hope you find what your lookin for

With everything I write on here you would have thought the scammers and fakes would pay attention.  I have this message today here ON Tumblr:

MSG FROM: jessie-a85  

MSG CONTENT: hey bb

MSG 2: Hey there what's up with u!? Ahh, I was taking a bath and just got dressed and noticed u here in my suggested people and I figured I'd say hai. I hope I didn't get u while ure busy or anything.  So I was goin out with sum jerk for the biggest waste of 5 months but we broke up and I've been kinda surprised at how much I like being single and free lol

The photo is all over the internet.  Now I am not against anyone’s sexual preference, but let me inform you this profile’s photo is a woman.  So I guess they ‘assume’ women have sex with anyone and have no sexual preference when they are scamming, let alone that women appreciate being talked to with phrases like “bb” “baby” “cutie” “sweetie” or “honey.”  I absolutely dislike anyone that approaches me with names that a familiar should be using.  I can’t even believe someone would contact ME of all people with everything I write about on here with this approach!!! LOL

When I woke up this morning and checked my messages online I saw this message.  I couldn’t believe my eyes.  ** WARNING ** This contains adult language!!!  This man is 54 years old.  He is honestly over 4400 MILES away and sent this to me.  First off was 3 photos, close ups to make it look huge, of his penis.  Then this message followed it:

MSG: I received this today. This man has NEVER talked to me before and he is over 4400 miles away and he sent me 3 photos of his dick and this note: MSG: Is this enough for you? Is it enough big for you? Because if it is not enough, it means that you have a wide pussy like that of a whore who has taken thousands of them in her life !!! And if you want me to tell you all, in the photo you put on the site you stick just like a big slut and this is very horny and you give me a hard cock looking at you ... too bad ... you would be a good fuck ...send me some other nice pictures that i masturbate watching your sexy slutty body  6/17/2020 3:06 am