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Hey there! 💓❤️💓Of course! Thanks for dropping by + asking me! 💓❤️💓Sending lots of love right back!! 💓❤️💓 Wishing you the best!! 💓❤️💓

First of all.. delicious water placements, especially that moon ;v;!! 💓❤️💓 I hope you’re doing ok during this saturn/pluto transit... hopefully it’s already moved past your placements + isn’t in opposition anymore 💓❤️💓

Other than that, delicious really enjoy how you’re a Cancer rising and your chart ruler is literally Cancer Moon (1H? I use whole signs so it’s in 1H, but it may be in another houses if you’re using other house systems)  -- water/water (sun-moon) AND you have cardinal/mutable energy? 💓❤️💓 Chef’s kiss 💓❤️💓

Absolutely delicious how much personal power you have, compared to me a dumb earth/earth/earth who would be 👁👄👁 next to you -- I’ve heard the power of Intuition is pretty strong in water signs, especially since yours is close/next to an angular house. I hope this becomes part of your advantage/edge over others, because truly, if you’re good at handling yourself then later on, this will come in handy with handling whatever comes your way 💓❤️💓

Something that might help, is to consider relying on others but also learning how to not let them affect you. Does this make sense? The problem is that it’s usually a two way street - there’s always a way to do it safely, but it’s not always like everyone else who can give/take in equal parts. Do what’s best for you, if that is to learn how to take and how to let go - then it’ll come with time/experience sometimes I think 💓❤️💓 

Hey Be,

I got the Knight of Wands and Judgement for you.

Keep your vibes high, and be mindful of how you spend your energy. Do not let pointless things eat away at it because you’re headed towards a pretty powerful, perhaps even transformative time in your life. If you’re the kind to start things with enthusiasm, but then lose interest or momentum towards the end, this is a sign to, again, keep your energy levels in check and take accountability for your life and your actions. If you have any skills that you’re confident in and passionate about, think of how you can help others with them and spread good in the world.

The Change, The Loop, & The Storm

Well to enjoy your life more there needs to be a change in perspective or at least how you see things/let them affect you. The cards talk about changing yourself by letting your feelings be heard instead of ignored or kept quiet. Communication is important because if we don’t talk about things they can get bottled up and then explode at the worst times and, more often than not, to people we don’t mean to explode at. So start small. It might be hard to explain how you feel, I know I have that problem, but it can help other’s try and understand where you are coming from. Also, an exercise I learned from therapy was to find the root of the emotion I was feeling at the time be it anger, anxiety, etc. There would be times when I would be made at someone and I’d question myself as to why. Sometimes the answer was “because they’re an idiot” but other times it would be “because I’m jealous of them” or “because I feel like they don’t listen to my problems”. This could be something to help articulate your feelings if you are having any trouble. Also make sure to listen to others as well. Communication is a two-way street and talking to do a world of wonders.

Hopefully that helps, let me know, ok?

Take care and good luck!

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