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Enneagram: Upbringing

In childhood, they lacked a sense of...

Presence (1, 8, 9) embodiment, self, autonomy, willpower

Identity (2, 3, 4) worth, desirability, self-image, esteem

Stability (5, 6, 7) confidence, predictability, trust, resourcefulness

They had issues related to their need for...

Protection (1, 2, 6) father/fatherly figures, clarity, power, authority

Nourishment (3, 7, 8) mother/motherly figures, growth, nurture, support

Belonging (4, 5, 9) family/friends, communication, inclusion, culture

In relationship to these experiences, they felt...

Disconnected (1, 4, 7) interference, dissatisfied, empty, frustration

Ambivalent (2, 5, 8) reluctance, abnegation, denial, rejection

Connected (3, 6, 9) dependence, subordinate, reliant, attachment

In order to handle this conflict, they learned to...

Detach (1, 3, 5) separate, rationalize, objectify, structure

Reframe (2, 7, 9) avoid, distract, enrich, minimize

Express (4, 6, 8) react, vent, embrace, release

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Identity cannot, then, reside in the name you can say or the body you can see—your own or your mother’s. Identity emerges in the failure of the body to express being fully and the failure of the signifier to convey meaning exactly. Identity is perceptible only through a relation to an other—which is to say, it is a form of both resisting and claiming the other, declaring the boundary where the self diverges from and merges with the other. In that declaration of identity and identification, there is always loss, the loss of not-being the other and yet remaining dependent on that other for self-seeing, self-being.

Peggy Phelan, in Broken Symmetries: Memory, Sight, Love.

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When our companion fails us we transfer our love instantaneously to a worthy object.

Henry David Thoreau, quoted by Maggie Nelson in Bluets.

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Psychoanalysis of Hannibal Lecter

https://psychotherapy.psychiatryonline.org/doi/epdf/10.1176/appi.psychotherapy.2002.56.1.100

A bit long and technical in language, but still an intriguing point of view.

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Human beings are funny. They long to be with the person they love but refuse to admit openly. Some are afraid to show even the slightest sign of affection because of fear. Fear that their feelings may not be recognized, or even worst, returned. But one thing about human beings that puzzles me the most is their conscious effort to be connected with the object of their affection even if it kills them slowly within.

Sigmund Freud

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