Enneagram: Upbringing
In childhood, they lacked a sense of...
Presence (1, 8, 9) embodiment, self, autonomy, willpower
Identity (2, 3, 4) worth, desirability, self-image, esteem
Stability (5, 6, 7) confidence, predictability, trust, resourcefulness
They had issues related to their need for...
Protection (1, 2, 6)Â father/fatherly figures, clarity, power, authority
Nourishment (3, 7, 8)Â mother/motherly figures, growth, nurture, support
Belonging (4, 5, 9) family/friends, communication, inclusion, culture
In relationship to these experiences, they felt...
Disconnected (1, 4, 7) interference, dissatisfied, empty, frustration
Ambivalent (2, 5, 8) reluctance, abnegation, denial, rejection
Connected (3, 6, 9) dependence, subordinate, reliant, attachment
In order to handle this conflict, they learned to...
Detach (1, 3, 5) separate, rationalize, objectify, structureÂ
Reframe (2, 7, 9) avoid, distract, enrich, minimize
Express (4, 6, 8) react, vent, embrace, release




















