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❛ I’ve been rather inactive and I would love to catch up with some new and some awesome people. ❜

Below the surface everyone is pretty complicated. Based on your answers, we think the following three traits are important strands in your personality:

TENDERNESS

You are not afraid of the sufferings and sorrows of other people, even when they are acted out in unappealing ways. Beneath even defensiveness and self-righteous behaviour, you know that deep down people need nurturing and consolation. One danger is being naive about people’s dark sides. But at your best you know you can be mean yourself, which helps you to sympathise. You bring strength and forgiveness where other people might panic.

SHYNESS

Part of you is gripped by the fear that you’ll launch into something and completely mess it up. The upside of this is wise caution: people are indeed often too rash, whereas you know, by instinct, that holding back can save you. Probably, you feel shame and self-disgust a bit too much. But when you do feel in your element, you act with a wisdom and sensitivity never found in people with thicker skins.

EXHIBITIONISM

There’s a strand in your nature which loves making an impression – perhaps with your clothes, or conversation, or in a self-revealing blog or a novel. You like to dramatise yourself, to pose as a unique, perhaps mysterious person, to joke or exaggerate your part in adventures. Though you might more than once have been called a show off, it is actually a generous tendency: you want to please and entertain others. It could be the start of good teaching and leadership.

Put a "◊" in my ask for a sticky note left on your fridge in the morning by my muse.

Sull Hee wrote as neat as possibly on the blue, sticky note and placed it on the fridge.

                        Good Morning, I hope you slept well. I'm sorry that                        I'm not here to have breakfast with you but work had                        called in earlier. Although I did leave you an omelette,                               I hope it is to your liking. I'll be back soon.