Do men even call you "not handsome enough to tempt" them, then keep months secretly pinning after you while you think they are looking to find fault, then ruin perhaps forever the happiness of your most beloved sister, then propose to you after calling your whole family embarassing, then disappear for a while only for you to bump into them while visiting their home with your relatives, and then pay for their archnemesis to marry your silly younger sister in order to save you and the rest of your family anymore?