#notes kermit

when it comes to synastry, i find that having moon-moon harsh aspects can be the most beautiful thing

having moon opposite moon can feel so calming in a way, because both of the people involved have core views on the world that are quite similar, even if the reason for why they have those reasons may differ; meaning convergent reasons pretty much

e.g a taurus moon and a scorpio moon: both treasure their loved ones like crazy; it doesn’t make sense to them, when they really care for someone, to just disappear from that person’s life. the way in which they show that care diverges, but the core “idea” still remains

it’s like each person is the “missing puzzle piece” of the other (you could say they are the other side of the coin), they complete one another, and if both parties work on the relationship and communicate, it’s quite easy to “fix” the issue, i.e to find common ground. in all honesty, i believe that sharing this aspect in synastry with someone can be one of the most transformative influences in one’s life, even if the relationship doesn’t last, one will always feel the connection and appreciate what they learned from it and how it changed them

on the other hand, if we look at this aspect from a not so optimistic lens, damn it can get real volatile real fast. the pair can clash non-stop, not really because they can’t understand one another (as mentioned above, there’s a lot of potential for mutual understanding), but because they don’t actively listen to what each have to say, resentment can linger in the air

memes that remind me of moon opposite moon:

having moon square moon is what i like to call “crazy fun”, meaning the relationship both feels amazing, and well it can be immensely fun, but it can also be very frustrating at times, like there is no hope/salvation when butting heads, i.e it can make one think “yeah... they’re not going to understand no matter what i do/say”

this square screams “frustration” to me, i feel like they can act like complete kids with one another and have this intense need for just sharing feelings and ideas, because everything about the other is new and different and that is exciting

generally speaking, one tends to feel attraction towards the other individual, whether romantic or not, there is a sense of magnetism and intrigue here. the amount of things you learn and discover with someone whose moon squares your own, it’s a whole new perspective (woooooooorld, a dazzling place i never knew <3) and it can be extremely fulfilling

not that this aspect indicates the lack of an emotional connection and depth, but there tends to be a lot of misunderstandings since the lenses with which each individual sees personal values and how they express their emotions is usually not compatible, i.e it diverges. so conjugating both emotional sides may be a bumpy road. in a more wholesome note, there tends to be a lot of honesty involved and listening

moon square moon is one intense hell of a ride that will open somebody’s eyes to things that maybe never even crossed their minds before and yes, it will push one out of their comfort zone emotionally (if they really do put in effort in the relationship) since it will sometimes require one to respect the other, even if they don’t comprehend for e.g the other person’s emotional reaction at all. being at peace with, and also respecting, differences and realizing they are not flaws is key

memes that remind me of moon square moon:

basically, i met someone. we have this really interesting synastry and one aspect *really* and i mean REALLY caught my attention

my moon squares his pof and his moon squares my pof. funniest, goofiest thing? we have a composite scorpio moon. i think that speaks for itself :P

on top of that, in his sr chart this year, he has a scorpio moon and i have a scorpio moon in my birth chart. i have no idea if this is all related or if it could mean something, but my brain just thinks "one is an incident, two is a coincidence, three is a pattern" haha

i'm sharing this honestly because i am hella confused. this is a person that i simultaneously learn a lot from, having a kind of connection that's pushing me further towards growth, yet it feels familiar, like in my bones type of situation, to the point where the connection pulls me back. i hope this made sense lol

it's extremely nerve-racking trying to understand if there is more "pull" or more "push" so i've been trying to study our synastry and composite charts to see if i am going delusional or not.

i'm going to name a few other aspects that we have that i believe will be able to explain what i just tried to convey better than i can:

synastry wise

his mars conjunct my sn

his sun square my sn

his mercury square my sn

his uranus square my sn

his jupiter opposite my sn

his saturn opposite my sn

his vertex opposite my sn

my chiron conjunct his sn

my sun opposite his sn

my asc square his chiron

his chiron conjunct my ic

[like damn what in tarnation, cuz ik ik you, but idk you, so ???]

[the aspects in bold are ones in tight orbs]

there's also a ton of other north node, saturn and jupiter aspects so yeah, i honestly don't know what to do about that

composite wise

pluto opposite north node

chiron square asc

chiron conjunct ic

chiron opposite jupiter

mars conjunct ic

8h taurus stellium (sun, mercury and venus)

scorpio moon opposite that very same stellium

to summarize, i am no expert in astrology, but i honestly feel that i've known this person before. i mean it to the point where when we are together the both of us are constantly getting dejavus.

the thing is, we are so different and yet on the same page, but i can't help but be divided mentally: is this "familiarity" something i should be wary of or should i let this play out because, in the end of the day, this is for sure going to involve a lot of character development

all in all, this was incredibly fun to write and i hope whoever read this didn't get bored with so much text haha