if there is anything i need to be doing better as a friend, i am being 100% completely serious when i say: please tell me. i will take the advice. i will try to do better. i often am not sure of what im supposed to do unless it's specifically articulated to me clearly, which means i struggle with taking hints and putting pieces together, which means that if you want me to do something, you've got to buckle down and say that you want me to do it. i won't blow up at you and i won't maliciously bite you.