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Yeah, it make sense you would have similiar ways in norway. With children, do you mean younger than 14 year old?
(the reason it was 14 year old was because the swedish church has konfirmation at 14 btw. So, when they done that, they were considered old enough to be sent away from home)
My maternal grandma got sent away in what must have been the 1920s like that btw. She HATED it i must say though. I mean i joke around about it, but for many of the ones in the early 20th century (who were the generations who spoke out against this custome and made it stop) it was really really rough and they got treated really badly. Beaten, abused etc etc.
My grandma was sent to a fäbod to herd and milk the cows in Ă
ngermanland. I assume it was far away from home, because thats kinda the point of the fäbod. My grandma HATED it. Now tbf many who worked at fäbodar at that time liked it, because they were far away from the village and parents, with people the same age as them watching cows during summer. Many therefore had cheerful memories at working in fäbod as a teenager.
My grandma was NOT among them.
Then for her first wages, that she gotten at the fäbod and I think working as a piga in other places too, she bought a bike. Her brother had a bike, and she had dreamt to get one for herself as well. Now, a bike was actually a very sensible thing in 1920S Norrland. The jobs were getting fewer and fewer so to have a bike to easier reach them was a good idea!
Now grandma also just wanted to be able to meet friends, dance, get out of the house and so on as any 15 year old but, still a good buy!
Her father though, born in 1880, and who was a very tyranical and abusive father, got furious, said that: "women should not HAVE bikes!" and took her bike from her and threw her out of the house.
Now, she lived in a small house with her 10 siblings in North - West Ă
ngermanland. Like. He basically threw her into the forest. I dont think they even lived in a village. Basically, he did not only make her homeless, he threw her out into a sub arctic forest with no other human dwellings than her parents house within a walking distance.
So, then my grandma sneaked around outside the house, her mother snuck out and gave her food and so on. She did this for a while. Then she travelled to stockholm with some friends. Maybe she was 16 now? and started to do different working class jobs in stockholm, while they moved between flats who were going to be demolished in central stockholm (in gamla klara)
Anyway, somehow she survived all that. But talking about how rough it could be, i thought i would tell my maternal grandmas story, which she told me btw when i was like 5 for the first time. She told all her grandchildren this story. Often. I think she wanted to tell us, that like.
"this was how horrible things used to be. I am so pleased you dont need to do things like that when you are children"
That, and I suspect she just needed to talk about this with people....
Her father was like. More abusive than the average born in the 1880s dude, but, its still not an unique life story of poor rural folk in sweden from that epoch.