Sleep? Who is she? Don’t know her 😂
Mr Santi has decided that mommy no longer needs to sleep and seems to only want to excessively move his itty bitty feet when I’m trying to get some rest.
Being the size of an eggplant seems to have also grown his attitude 😩
Cutest thing this week has been how he reacts to his Daddy singing to him, it’s had me an emotional mess 🥹
Sky had been told the news that her sister is actually her brother.
She seems to think that if she says ‘No, a sister’ enough times, then he might just magically be born a girl.
That’s all we heard all weekend long 🤭
J will say ‘Sky, look your brother is kicking to show you how much his feet have grown’
She shoots him a look like this 😠 and follows it with ‘No it’s a sister Daddy’
So I can’t tell if she’s being sassy or if she is genuinely so confused after being told she’s getting a sister for several weeks and then it suddenly being Ooop nevermind, it’s a baby brother
We had Sky’s momma and her momma’s new girlfriend round for dinner and can I just say, these modern style families are legitimately an incredible way to raise children, I don’t care what anyone says.
I am no contact with my family (was low contact with a few of them but not after what I’m about to tell you guys)
So, I was just having a rare little catch up with one of my cousins and we’re going back and forth with life updates and shit.
So I just so happen to mention that I was making dinner with my fiancé for his daughters mother and her new girlfriend because we hadn’t met her properly yet and J and Skys mom have the very important rule that whoever they invite into their lives has to be accepted by the other before being around Sky full time.
And the comments I received off this bitch were honestly diabolical, acting like Sky is going to grow up so confused or something.
Whether she was meaning because Sky’s mom is dating a woman or because there’s extra people rather than just your stereotypical 2 parent family, I do not know.
First of all, we are in 2025 ma’am!
Families that aren’t ’stereotypical’ exist!
Sky is happy and loved and healthy and that’s the most important thing!
Second of all, she will grow up being such a beautifully open minded and accepting person.
And she definitely does not care that her parents are not together because she doesn’t know any different, they haven’t been an item since before she was born.
To Sky, it’s very normal that Mommy and Daddy live in 2 different places and they do an amazing job of not making it feel like she’s being thrown from pillar to post going between each home.
She has an awesome mom who would do anything for her, an incredible Dad who literally worships her, me as a third parental figure (we personally as a family unit use the title Bonus Mommy) who treats her and loves her as if she is biologically my own, and hopefully if it works out between them both she will have a second Bonus Mom in the form of her mom’s new girlfriend.
Four adults to love her, protect her, guide and teach her.
How can anyone see anything negative with that?!
I love being in what some people would see as a ‘weird modern family’ personally 😂
I love that Sky’s mom and I have such a close bond.
Already, she loves my son to death and he isn’t even biologically related to her but he’s her daughters sibling so she loves him like he’s a part of her and she sees him as a Bonus child. Which I think is just beautiful.
And ok, things didn’t work out between her and my partner because they were young when they had Skylynn, as well as many other reasons, but they’ve made the best of it and given her a very stable life.
It’s definitely not for everyone and I totally get that but to judge it is so bizarre to me
