contradictary label culture is having a perfectly curated set of labels that work for you but knowing it will never make sense to most people.
yes, i am a nonbinary genderqueer xenogender transgender man. yes . all of these. yes, trans MAN not transMASC. this is who i am
yes. i am also an aroallo polyamorous objectum bisexual gay. no i will not explain my attractions, it shouldnt even matter to anyone but me and my partners!!
i am happy with the labels i have come to use. they might not make sense to a lot of people, but they do to me, and thats the important part
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