This is how I feel about the third party/non-voters...
Say my car is going over a cliff. There are 22 people standing around when it starts to go over. 10 people jump in to help stop it, but 10 others decide they hate me and want the car to get totaled. They start pushing it from the other end. We get locked in an epic struggle to either save or destroy the car.
The last two people look around and decide they don’t want to get hurt fighting over the car so they do nothing. They stand by and watch while we struggle. One of them wanders off to go give a jump to someone else’s car because their battery died.
At the last second some asshole comes out of nowhere and helps the ten people pushing the car, giving it the shove it needs to go over the cliff.
While I’m standing on the edge of the cliff staring at the wrecked heap of my car, the person that wandered off to help someone else comes over and says they’re sorry my car was destroyed.
I turn to them, angry and hurt and confused, and demand to know why they didn’t help.
Well, I didn’t help the other guy either they say, offended that I didn’t accept their condolences. They wander off again to see if anyone else needs a jump while my car bursts into flames.