#non-conformancy

Gender Incongruity: characterized by a marked and persistent incongruence between an individual’s experienced gender and the assigned sex; a condition where someone is convinced that their true gender is different (incongruous) from the one indicated by their body or the one that has been assigned to them.

Incongruousness (incongruency) can be contrasted with disconnection as well as dissonance is with dysphoria and variancy with nonconformity/discordance.