Our self esteem is built when we are born and shaped by our environment. Depending on how strong that environment is will be an indicator of how much self esteem we have.Â
We might have different places where we perform better then others, in academics, sports and business that gives a feeling of high esteem. If your core is saying something different in every other area of your life, your underlying actions might be driving you to places you didnât want to go.
A lot of us look to others for self esteem and compare what we think is a perfect life. This is dangerous when we compare our lives to others because we donât know their lives and more importantly we are building on a false hope we can be someone else.Â
If you have ever been told â you are not good â , â not good enough â â youâre not this â, â youâre not that â from your mother, father, husband, wife,   this is not easy to build up self esteem. Self esteem is a big part of what moves our lives to accomplish what we want. Â
What can you do to start to build self esteemÂ
1. Take a deeper look to see where your life stands today?
2. Where do you perform?Â
3. What do you stay away from?                                         [ Indicators of what you believe and donât believe in yourself ]
4. STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO ANYONE
5. Know you were born in love, and tell yourself â I CAN DO THIS â
Self esteem has to be built, layer by layer and we need tools to help build it. The biggest step is recognizing what have you been told about yourself, what have you felt about yourself and know â I DESERVE THISâ