transformation
a guy I met once last year messaged me yesterday out of the blue. we had one date and he disappeared after that. I wasn’t into sugaring yet so he was younger (33 I think), but I still didn’t chase them boys so I forgot about it even though I did have fun with him. he now wrote that he had some issues last time and needed time to sort things out and that he’d like to meet over coffee lol. had he done this last year, oh boy, I would have been so excited 😂. told him that I’m into traditional dating and proposed a €€€€ bar (hell, not even a restaurant, didn’t want to overwhelm the poor boy), he responded with: ‘sounds like a good idea! I just don’t like paying for the evening, I think it’s silly.’
goddesses, how I love seeing how my standards have changed.
I stated that our views on dating are too different and wished him the best. like I’m going to put on my high-end make-up, jam myself into some shapewear, heels and a dress and most importantly - spend time away from my dog (???) - for him to not even pay for my drinks? bahahahhahahahah these guys are delusional I swear to god how on earth did they get to thinking that they are the goddesses’ gift to us I’ll never be able to understand.
