#nocisma

Veldi-NoCisMa also called Umbricoric, is a term for veldians who aren’t attracted to Cisgender Mens, they:

One's attraction to a man fades once it is known that this person is a cisgender man.

One does not feel attraction to mend until it is known that the man in question is not cisgender.

One chooses not to date cisgender mens.

This term is exclusively for Veldians who arent attracted to Cis Men, any non-cis veldians can use it (veldigirl, non-binary, multigender, etc…), the term is used by transgender, non-binary, or otherwise non-cis people who are not attracted to cis men or are unwilling to date cis men.

How and Why ?

The unwillingness to date cis men is not because there’s any inherent difference between cis and trans men, rather it stems from issues of safety, trauma, oppression, or other personal reasons. One may not want to be vulnerable to misconceptions, misgendering, or oppression from their partner. One may also prefer a trans partner because one would relate to them more.

This label was made by an inclusive individual and so exclusionists don’t use it !!

Etymology

Umbri come from one of the moon of Uranus called « Umbriel ». Since the term is a merge of Veldian and NoCisMasexual, the name is also a merge making VeldiNoCisMa

Dni:

Nocismasexual also called Nesoic is the attraction to all genders, except, either: A) One's attraction to men fades once it is known someone is a cisgender man. B) One does not feel attraction to men until it is known that the man in question is not cisgender, or C) One chooses not to date cisgender men/chooses not to date men unless they know the man in question is not cis.

The term is used by transgender, non-binary, or otherwise non-cis people who are not attracted to cis men or are unwilling to date cis men. The unwillingness to date cis men is not because there’s any inherent difference between cis and trans men, rather it stems from issues of safety, trauma, oppression, or other personal reasons. One may not want to be vulnerable to misconceptions, misgendering, or oppression from their partner. One may also prefer a trans partner because one would relate to them more.

NOCIS-, NOCISMA-, AND NOCISWOMA- FLAG REDESIGNS!

These are labels for trans folx only that aren't attracted to cis people or choose not to date cis people. There are multitudes of reasons as to why, but some common ones are that some trans folx don’t want to be vulnerable to misconceptions, misgendering, or oppression from their partners, or that they would prefer a trans partner because they would relate to each other more! 

The black and outer stripes, as well as the line striking through, represent the non-attraction to cis people (or men/women), or the decision to not date cis people (or men/women). the dark blue + red represent cis people, and the medium blue + pink represent any kind of t4t (trans-for-trans) attraction! (i took them directly from the trans flag) The middle stripe represents the trans people using the label. I wasn't really sure what to do for the nocis- flag, so i just made it gray (but it has purple tints). 

Princess Pamela (Head Over Heels)

That would be nocisma-. :)

Nocisma- Attraction to all genders but having that attraction to men fade once it is known someone is a cisgender man OR not feeling attraction to men until it is known that man is not cisgender.

Term coined by: Unknown

[Image: Flag with 5 stripes: Muted darkish brown, muted lightish brown, brown, cream brown, light blue].

Full size [Here]

Designed by: Mod Hermy (chosen from flag scraps folder by anonymous).

Color meanings: The blue being at the bottom represents discomfort/unwillingness to have a relationship with a cis man (due to trauma or oppression or other personal reasons, not because there’s any inherent difference between cis and trans men). The rest of the colors being generally brown/grey represents how the person can be comfortable and fine with other genders/people.

Bi could absolutely be a label that apply to you - bi just means attraction to two or more genders. But of course you don’t have to use that label if you feel uncomfortable with it.