#no blaming

1. I plan my things - because by planning, I have less reasons to blame other people why i fail

2. if I want something, i think it over and give it a shot..I dont make excuses and blame other people as to why I cant have what I want

3. if things dont go my way? i let it go..there is more to life than meets the eye..moving forward is the healthiest retaliation you can give yourself from failing

4. I find reasons to smile instead of mulling over things that made me cry...

5. i never compare myself to others..when i start comparing my circumstance to others i start to feel pitiful and I dont want that

6. i have learned to be more private with my life and thoughts..social media is not my diary therefore i dont post personal thoughts/events daily or even every other day..and i dont vent my feelings through posting..because, i believe that problems are easier solved when you talk to the ones involved directly..