#neurotypicals

my neurotypical friend recently told me they've never struggled with their gender identity. i'm about to get a masterclass on being a girl baybee!!!

I have a theory that neurotypicals are less creative because they live in a world that's designed for them. There's no need to think outside the box when the box is cozy and shaped like you and you've always felt included in it. The othering that neurodivergent people are used to in almost every aspect of life leads to a perspective that's at odds with conventions. It would take considerable effort for a neurotypical to even get a glimpse of this perspective. That's why they make derivative top 40 pop music while autists invent new genres

It’s 2026, we can not be making fun of people or ostracizing them for their hygiene not being “good enough.”

Neurotypicals have a glitch in their brain where they trust appearances too much and don't interrogate whether what they're seeing is any good below the surface. It's a result of top-down processing. Looking nice is all that matters. Their brains fill in the unknowns with Good Vibes if their first impression of something is pleasant. If you know how to exploit their tendency to make assumptions you can control them. This is how half the world's economy works. This is why people are paying money for vibecoded apps that run like shit and aren't debuggable. If it looks pretty they don't ask questions like "does the person selling it to me understand how code works?". They just assume the best because the UI has an artifice of professionalism. The dumbest things in the world start to make a lot of sense when viewed through this lens

sometimes im trying to talk about the bpd expierence and a NT will be like oh everyone has that emotion. dude. not . not in the bpd way. it is an entirely different emotional spectrum. you you don't see the nuance in my experience. not everyone has emotions the way borderlines do

neurotypicals will call themselves every single neurodivergent term under the sun and look at you like you shot 7 people when you bring it up