ooc. pet peeve under the cut cause it's negative but it's my blog so i get to post what i want when things bother me.
if you claim you're a no pressure type of person, and that people are allowed to take as much time as they need to reply to you, but when someone doesn't reply to you with gusto and immediately, you remove them? sorry, but you're not no pressure.
it's absolutely fine to keep your peace and maintain boundaries with communication. it's not okay to put forth an expectation that someone talking to you is allowed to reply at their own pace and take time to do things, and go back on that expectation. at least to me, it feels like a bait and switch sort of deal.
you also cannot expect the people on this site to see everything that you say on the dashboard. people have lives, they step away from the site, they do other things especially when they're experiencing tough times as well. if you want someone to see something, you have to say it directly to them.
