Delegate Year - NBS 2014 Memories
Since Iâve been a bit too busy this past year and hadnât really much time to finish the full-length mega-tale of my delegate year at NBS 2014, I figured I might as well do a highlight reel of this or that which comes to mind, as I prepare to head back in 2015! (Wanted to keep this simple, having written most of it while on a road trip, but I apologize if anythingâs a bit off since the dates/times are approx.) Enjoy~
Arrival
By about 7-8am of Sunday, weâd reached UNR. Us guys grabbed our bags, our caps, our waters, etc., then came off the charter bus to retrieve our luggage from below. Outside, the university shown brightly with its reddish bricks and older architecture. I was quite impressed, since UNLV felt almost entirely âmodernâ. Manno and I were separated pretty quick, since our first mission after retrieving our luggage was to find our room. Still, the air up in Reno was so much cooler than it had been in Vegas. Had my cap and whatnot, passed by many a Maverick wading through the quickly-increasing crowd on his way into the dorm building. Whereas our late-night meeting at the Area 51 rest stop had seemed so surreal and our first boarding at the Legionâs post so foreign, having finally set foot in Reno, I knew we were hitting the ground running.
After retrieving my D28N navy suitcase (having gotten it last Christmas), I too stepped off the grass and into the super crowd. Johnston passed by, in his NBS black counselor shirt. So fly. As usual, I snapped a few photos, then I too went up into the building, having heard that my city, Las Craigas, was on a higher floor. So I entered the dorm building, its lobby reminiscent of design Iâd seen further east; made a left out of the lobby and towards a stairwell many more were ascending, and I followed the handwritten paper signs labeled by city.
By the third floor or so, I reached Las Craigas. Couldnât believe we got an entire dorm floor to ourselves, but it looked pretty rad. Lower ceiling than I wouldâve expected, but not an issue haha. Us dudes were crowding up by a registration table, where I believe Stephan Kim had been checking us in. Saw Nate Nyberg passing by; Zack Brill got moved into my city too! Nice to have the familiar faces. In time, I got my deposit paid, my nametag and shirt in-hand, and I could move through.
My room was at the hallâs end, so I needed some walking down. Other counselors were moving too and fro. Our rooms were two-person, with a small hall-type-thing linking two rooms as a unit. Beside my room was one where Vincent Pretto and Alex Wang would be moving in; with me, was a roommate Rei Vital, from Liberty. Plopping my suitcase on the desk and my sleeping bag over the bed, I quickly proceeded to swap out my Key Leader 2013 shirt for the NBS yellow. Rei had to leave the room, so he expected me not to be a thief. Haha, fun exchange we had there.
After getting set-up enough with my things, I headed out to explore the hall, where plenty of my fellow Las Craigas dudes were already meeting each other. I believe this is when Conor and our other tall guys assembled us across the hall for the party room. Got an apple and an apple-flavored pastry for breakfast!
Day 1 Adventures
Day 1 was packed with some many great times. As a city, we did a silent Human Knot to kick-off our first time bonding outside the politics -- really getting to feel each other as human beings, not just as competitors. We met some of the Legionnaires for the first time. It was a cheery moment, out on the UNR grass.
That first lunch, so many of us were freaking out about all the things weâd have to memorize for the morning. Daily Honors would be ours come Monday, and we had to know the Creed and so many songs. I thought back to the stress of APUSH, thinking how funny it was that Iâd escaped one academic stress load and leaped into another. But Lipparelli was super chill about it, and he was the first counselor I really got to chat with.
That night, having become City Reporter, I went to the News Room rather than City time. That night, I won my first major election, for a position I hadnât known existed prior to reaching NBS: Editor in Chief. Had a great team with me, even with my fellow Maverick Parker Johnson (who Iâd never known was such a fantastic writer). Spent a huge amount of time with my Statesman news staff that week at Boysâ State. On staff, I look forward to whichever news team is coming in for 2015!
Mutually Assured Failure
One night, during one of our Las Craigas city meetings, Andrew Moschetti led us in a group discussion about our own failures in life. He related how, as we may had realized by that point in the week, a major aspect of Boysâ State is that you are made to fail. More often than not, one who tries often fails the most. I noted my own shortcomings, having lost just as many elections as Iâd won here at NBS: the Nationalist Party Communications Committee Chair election, my bid as a Las Craigas Senator, and the election for Speaker of the Assembly. (Comparatively, Iâd only three wins: Las Craigas City Reporter, Editor in Chief, and Assemblyman; though Editor in Chief had been the only one I had really run for.)
So going back to the failures, as a city, the ice-breaker for this evening was to go around and share a failure of our own (big or small). For Moschettiâs part, his failure had been in running for re-election in a position of his city in real life. From his perspective, the odds seemed so great: seemingly a dependable base; contending against a relatively unknown opponent. Yet, Moschetti lost that election. Sure it was a hit to the ego; but more than that, it was a reality check. And for me, I needed to hear that story. Because, while my Boysâ State failures had been relatively small and easy to trace back why I had failed (usually a lack of assertiveness or a lesser skill at representing my constituencies), I had a colossal loss just less than a month before attending Nevada Boysâ State: losing the appointment for Mentoring Chair of my Student Ambassador Program.
For some context, the Ambassador Program was absolutely huge for me back at A-TECH. My passion was so strong, I earned Ambassador of the Month in my very first month of being an ambassador. A month later, I was elected Junior Senator - the first election Iâd ever won in my life. I spent the year on board, serving my fellow junior ambassadors as best I could. And though Iâd lost the election for Vice President at the yearâs end, I hadnât worried. Because every past board (in recent history) had always appointed the junior senator to a community service chair, since theyâd always lost their elections. Considering I had done so much to innovate and revamp the Freshman Mentoring Program, I figured I had to be a shoe-in for the position. But on the last day of school, when Iâd come by the Ambassador Office for our departure for lunch, no one need tell me the verdict: I wasnât chosen. After a terribly taxing few months before then [read more about that in my âEnd of APâ Chronicle], that decision crushed what little spirit I had left. For the weeks leading up to Boysâ State, that pain-complex continued to ruminate in my thoughts, and even months into Senior Year of high school, it persisted.
All things considered, it was a hard loss to comprehend. But despite the loss, Moschetti helped me understand that there are certainly so many more factors to elections/appointments than what may appear on the surface. It certainly didnât make me an inferior person. But perhaps I had been in the wrong time. As I also realized as the NBS program had been going on, many of those Ambassador Officers who decided my lack of appointment had joined the opposing political party too -- Our politics themselves countered each other. How does a board lead when it too is divided? So my self-destroying thoughts relaxed. Canât change the past. And thereâs plenty more to worry about in the present. So time to make the best of it. Good talks.
Taking Risks
There was one day in which the theme was taking risks. Now, I believe this day had preceded the failures meeting. Or perhaps they were part of the same day. But for this group bonding activity with the City f Las Craigas, we all gathered together in the quiet, still darkness of UNR at a secluded space lodged between a tall dorm building and a tree. We stood in the grass, a little off from the pathway. Tonight, our mission was trust falls. These were not just any trust falls, ground-level, one guy catches another. No, these were trust falls from atop one of the light posts that sat beside the path (between chest- and waist-high). And the catchers were not one person but the entire city.
And so it was that evening, that we would share a risk we took. It could be big. It could be small. I believe Moschetti went first â or at least one of the counselors, so that we could see how the activity was done. Now, we really should have braced our arms together better, because when he fell into us, we barely caught him. (Oh, there were so many gasps of shock.) But thankfully, we did catch him, and we did catch everyone. So nobody in the City of Las Craigas face-planted.
That evening, I learned a whole lot about the men I worked with and the team I had been a part of, here at Boysâ State. We were not just some band of âNevadaâs Bestâ. We were human beings that had what might as well have been Atlasâs struggles. Because the risks most people shared were not simple risks â They were psychologically dangerous activities. And with the kind of brotherhood we had, the guys were willing to share. Leaving that gathering, I ad never elt so close to a group of boys that I would before had still called friends, many strangers.
For my own part, the risk I related was my running for A-TECH Student Body Historian. In an abridged way, I related how I had felt on a losing-streak, unsure of my own capabilities as a leader, and uncertain that I really had a chance. [There was a time Manno had asked if there were ever any Dark Times in my life. âWas it love, Daniel?â âIn some ways, yes.â] So, without a single year of experience in Student Council but with Historian-experience simultaneously in three different clubs, I took a leap of faith. And I won. And that is when I felt into the arms of my fellow delegates, who, like me, resonated in that pride of knowing success could still come despite the demoralizing failures from before. I would rather not specify the exact words that my fellow Las Craigas delegates related, for sake of privacy concerns. But that night, I heard and felt the fear and the triumph from one who revealed to his devout parents that he was an atheist (and still they loved him), from one who had worked up the courage to ask a girl out (and still they are together), from one who tried to bring his friend closer to God (and the passion he related), and from one who risked suicide even â and lived. He especially had made me feel so, so proud to be a delegate (and later an Assemblyman) alongside him.
The End
So my camera died (and I mean, actually died) during the Closing Ceremony. As such, Iâd just have to remember this last bit, because there was no way itâd be functional at NBS (darn lens error). So remember the event, I did. After the closing, Las Craigas headed outside the building to a place in the grass, somewhat damp from the morning dew. A cool enough morning. Moschetti led the distribution of our certificates.
It was a proud moment, out there in the fields. I thought back to the morning when the Nationalist Party Caucus was done outdoors â I had been with my City Reporters then, gather info from all the committees. (We were planning posters of a video I believe.) But, those days had passed. Today, this last morning of NBS, we celebrate our achievements, together. And though Moschetti told us we could have won Honor City with just one bill passed on Carson City Day, I felt proud to know we at least had a shot. Lipparelli challenged us to have another get-together before the yearâs end. May it happen someday. I remember us ascending that stairwell on our way back to the dorms to collect our luggage for the bus just being so surrounded in the brotherly energy of our clan together. It was a great feeling.
Tomorrow morning, I leave for Boysâ State, not as a delegate but as a counselor. First counselor year, so I expect this too to be a great time. For any current or future delegates reading, note that I have purposely omitted some of my favorite favorite memories because Iâd hate to spoil the best parts for you. ;D Go ham, expect not to sleep, and have a phenomenal time!










