If you're white/non-native, full stop, none of your business. Yes even if you think they are lieing. Yes even if she's talking about Cherokee princesses. Yes even if your native friend is suspects too. Yes even if that person doesn't have tribal sovereignty/doesn't know or identify via their tribe/hasn't had a DNA test. Yes even if they look white/mixed white. I do not care, this is none of your business, we don't need you mfers to tell and warn us and try to gatekeep outside of a community that isn't even fucking yours. Similar to the Hispanic community, a majority of natives are mixed, a majority are mixed with white and a majority pass as white. We can handle appropriators on our own. You are policing and colonizing up our spaces. Its none of your business what tribe they are, what race they look like, who or what makes them native. Its quite litterally none of your business. Us natives can and will handle it. You'd be pissed if you saw us policing white people, Hispanic pple or black people or literally anyone of any race who isn't native. Leave us alone.

And as for fellow natives who do this incessantly because you have a card/arnt wp/rez/raised in culture, you have no business either policing their identities or how they figured it out. You are part of the problem emboldening the colonizers to think they can clock us. They don't have the indicators you do and just because you went through the process doesn't mean you know what it looks like for a totally different tribe. I don't care if you think you can always clock it, you can't. Unless you're from their tribe and their spreading misinformation, you don't know that person, you don't know their card status and you don't know their history. Quit being a dick.

Oh and, just to tack it on here, just because a native may know their tribe or their ancestors or any personal information related to being native DOSENT MEAN you, non native or even other natives, are ENTITLED TO IT. Natives don't have to prove jack fucking shit to you. Be respectful ffs. Everytime anyone who isn't completely native passing says their native, a million non-natives who have no business there worm out of the woodwork like fuckin nasty maggots out of a corpse to ask their tribe, to show paperwork or proof, to get their card or DNA tested and still question them afterwards. Its none of your damn business. You got white papers? You know what specific tribe your ancestors came from? No? Then stfu, god damn.

Oh and to all you white folks knowingly lieing and preying on the kindness and understanding of natives who don't harass you over your race, especially to leverage it to be racist against actual poc? Get a fucking life, colonizer.

And, finally, to all my natives who just learned they were native, who are still learning about their cultures, who are still tracking down their tribe, who aren't capable of getting a government card or don't want to, who aren't capable of getting a reliable test (most dna tests aren't reliable for native American DNA and the only one who is, 23 and me, is ran by Mormons) or don't want to, no matter how much "proof" you want to aquire for yourself, your family or for the world, wether that's all of the above and more or nothing at all, as long as you have enough evidence to prove to yourself and you know it's true, you are welcome in our community. Don't listen to anyone who invalidates you because you don't "look native", wether due to being wp or passing as a completely different race, or the little shits who constantly demand more and more proof from you. You don't have to prove shit to anyone. Fuck the blood quantum purists, fuck the eugenicists. Your tribe loves you and respects you and if they don't, you didn't need that "offical" authority anyway.