#murseguy

SCCWriting is proud to introduce @murseguy !

Have you always know you were submissive?

The short answer, no. I didn’t really know what that meant or entailed. It’s a hard thing for a man to recognize, and accept in himself. I do realize looking back, of course. I have always been attracted to the stronger, more confident women and that I have always been more confident when the woman initiates sex.

How did you meet your Mistress?

She turned over the rock I lived under along with the other slimy, squiggle things. She must have seen some potential in me. Seriously, we met on a small island in the south eastern Pacific Ocean. A couple of us went to grab some lunch, and she was there with a group of her friends. Instant attraction! ***CueRogers and Hammersteins’s, “Some Enchanted Evening!”***

What advice or encouragement would you give other male subs?

Accept yourself as you are, despite what society has told you what you must be. Be man enough to be yourself.  

What advice would you give any sub?

Find somebody that you can trust wholly with your submission, someone who is worthy of your devotion. Do not settle for someone other than that because it’s something that you really want. It is better to be alone than misused or disappointed. Now if it’s just a casual play partner, that is a different story!!

What is the one thing you like about the BDSM community?

No matter what your kink of preferences, you will probably find a niche of like minded people.

What is the one thing you would like to see change about it?

I would love to change the fact that there are many that consider themselves experts, keepers of the BDSM faith and if your relationship does not mirror theirs it is not true D/s. They aren’t bashful about telling you all the ways your version is wrong.

Because of historical gender roles, being a male submissive seems like it would be more socially challenging than being a female sub. Has this been the case for you?

For the most part, no.We usually socialize with other dominant women and submissive men. Occasionally, we visit local dungeons with mixed roles. Generally, we have always had good experiences. On the rare occasion that someone at one of these events has had an issue with us, it’s usually a candidate for the “too Dom for you” group.

Blue pill or Red pill?

We hope you’re enjoying ‘Meet the Members!’

Next up is the fabulous @murseguy!  Please be sure to send him your questions by Wednesday, September 21st!

A reminder if you are just tuning in:

How will this work? Community members can submit questions to the week’s featured member by a predesignated date.  You can submit questions directly to SCC or to the person.  We want to allow the member time to answer the questions and create a post.  The post will then be submitted to the SCC administrators for posting.

What are the rules? Questions must be appropriate.  For example, ‘How do you and your Dom find time for each other?’ is an acceptable question.  ‘How big are your (insert body part here)?’ is inappropriate.  While we want the featured member to answer as many questions as possible, they always have the right to refuse to answer a question.

Questions can be asked anonymously.  Those who ask questions will not be identified in the post, even if you chose to not ask anonymously.