The stigmas of being a parent of more than 3 kids are real .

People always assume you’re struggling because you have multiple kids . I. Actuallity I love my big family , it’s always fun , house is always full of life and kids don’t stay kids for long before you know it , your kids are grown and all the laughter and joy dissappears .

Hi my names Molecia also known sometimes as mo .

I am 30 years old and I am a mum of five beautiful girls .

My eldest being 10 , my twins 8 , a four year old and currently a 3 month old baby .

During this pandemic I had to deal with a lot , but most importantly reflecting . My kids are my world and having a busy house always keeps me on my toes . People always assume me and my husband struggle (like everyone else we do have times which are difficult especially now during a pandemic ) .

But my girls are literally my strength , my every thing . They’re all very respectful , full of life , smart , intelligent, cheeky , funny .

I look back from the very beginning of my first child to my youngest and every child

Signifys different stages of me and my husbands life .

Don’t get me wrong you are gonna have down days and bad days . Days where you feel like you’re not good enough parent , but the fact that you question your parenting makes you an amazing parent , because it means you want to do better , you’re willing to relearn bad habits that our own parents would of passed down to us unknowingly. The fact that you want to be a better parent for your kids makes you an amazing parent .

My advice to you . Follow your instincts , everyone parents differently . So what works for you . Always talk to your kids , always make time for your kids . And don’t beat yourself up ! You got this !!