Lovely! They're both so supportive and go out of their way to make sure I spend time with friends or rest whichever is needed. My wife makes sure to do the most necessary daily chores so I have spoons to do the more difficult management around the house. If I'm in a bad way, he makes me rest. My husband takes me to church, helps me run errands and is just a huge support. Both of them are adamant I make it to church every single week and go out of their way to get me up, dressed, and gone in time. They also remind me when I have food to make for other members or for potlucks or promised to help with whatever's going on and attend parties and stuff with me. Which sounds odd but church is like my whole life right now because I don't have university or students to teach and job hunting hasn't really panned out thus far
Honestly? I hold them both to a high, difficult standard that's not easy to meet. I also hold myself to high standards and as frustrated as I get with the both of them sometimes, I love them with all my heart. There is so much happiness in my family, in my house, and even just with me and my daily life now. I'm so much happier and my life is so much better after divorcing my ex wife. Not to sound super cheesy, but my heart is so much freer now. Leaving them is easily the best decision I've made in a very long time because there's just so much cheer now
But yeah my husband and wife are both good and doing very well! My husband's work has been spotty so we're looking into partial unemployment right now. I'm still searching for more full time work. But they're good! I love them so much and I'm so grateful and glad they put up with my nonsense and love me too. My 3D pen comes tomorrow and our couch comes the 18th so looking forward to both of those things. We have friends coming over later to meet the kids (buns) so we don't have to worry about how they're doing when we visit my husband's family come Christmas week. Later, we're going to head out and see if we can't find some craft stuff at Hobby Lobby or wherever to do some fun Christmas crafting later. I'll definitely be posting pictures
Thank you for asking, by the way! I love my guys (well, one is bigender) with all my heart. They both make me so happy and it's like an endless feedback loop of goodness. I'm really hoping that one day we can bring (human) children into this dynamic but we'll cross that bridge when we get to it. In the meantime, my heart is full of love and my life is full of laughter. Even the bad days aren't all that bad
I could go on forever about the two of them and the endless love I have in my heart for them both. They're both so talented and lovely and anyone would be lucky and blessed to know either of them. But the fact that I know both of them? And I get to spend every single day with both of them? Oh man oh man I'm the luckiest person on the whole planet! I'm hands down the happiest I've ever been in my whole life and every single day is a treasure, it really really is. I just love them so much
Ok I promise I'm done gushing now fjsjfjejjajfrjjejwjfjr