That "tucutes and binders" post is the first time a transmed post has really gotten under my skin. my binder sometimes shows but like.. I'm not getting out of my favorite clothes because it shows but im not leaving the house without it (because like obviously dysphoria). My favorite clothes are baggy, so sometimes it shows. ESPECIALLY my favorite sweater is too big and will sometimes rest like that or fall off one shoulder. but it's comfy. and my best friend gave it to me so it means a lot :/
Transmeds are such an awful group like imagine having the audacity to tell someone that you know better about their own feelings than they do. It’s really no surprise that so many of them have devolved into just straight up hating a lot of trans people and enforcing really rigid and restrictive criteria for what they deem to be a trans person or not
