“Do Unto Others…”
3/2/2026
Simple Words. Impossible Love.“Do unto others…” We know the phrase. We quote it easily. We nod in agreement when we hear it. And yet, if we are honest, it remains one of the most resisted commands Christ ever gave.
Not because it is unclear. But because it is unbearable to the ego.
Christ did not offer these words as a gentle guideline for polite society. He offered them as a blade, meant to cut away the old man in us. They are simple only on the surface. Beneath them lies the Cross.
A World Formed by Anger We live in a culture addicted to outrage. Anger has become a virtue. Contempt is mistaken for clarity. Disagreement no longer seeks understanding; it seeks annihilation. People do not merely differ, they demonize.
Every issue becomes apocalyptic. Every offense becomes unforgivable. Every opponent is reduced to a caricature. And once that happens, cruelty feels justified. Mercy feels naïve. Forgiveness feels like betrayal.
This atmosphere forms us more than we like to admit.
And tragically, it does not stop at the Church doors.
When the Church Begins to Imitate the World Even within the Church, within the household of God, factions arise. Camps form. Labels are assigned. Harsh words are spoken with astonishing confidence, as though righteousness were proven by volume or sharpness.
We argue theology while neglecting obedience. We defend truth while abandoning love. We speak of Christ while refusing to resemble Him.
The Gospel becomes buried, not under persecution, but under personal offense.
And so we must return, again and again, to the unsettling clarity of Christ’s own words: “Love your enemies. Do good. Lend, expecting nothing in return… Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.” (Luke 6:35–36)
These words leave no room to hide.
Not Advice—A Way of Salvation Christ is not offering advice. He is revealing a way of life, or rather, a way of death that leads to life.
This command is not reserved for the unusually gentle or spiritually advanced. It is not an optional “higher calling.” It is the normal shape of Christian existence.
To refuse this command is not merely to fail morally, it is to reject the medicine of salvation. Because salvation is not simply forgiveness of sins. It is transformation. It is healing. It is becoming capable of loving as God loves.
Love That Is Not Natural Let us say it plainly: To love those who harm us is not natural.
Nature demands retaliation. Instinct demands self-defense. The ego demands recognition and vindication.
But the Gospel does not appeal to our instincts. It crucifies them.
What Christ commands cannot be accomplished by human effort alone. It is supernatural. It requires grace. It requires death, our death, so that His life may take root in us.
This love is not weakness. It is not passivity. It is not the absence of boundaries or discernment. It is power.
The power of Christ operating in a soul that has stopped defending itself and has begun trusting God.
The Cross as the Pattern of Power The Cross reveals a kind of power the world cannot comprehend.
It does not dominate. It does not humiliate. It does not retaliate.
It absorbs evil, and answers with mercy.
Christ does not defeat His enemies by destroying them. He defeats enmity itself by forgiving. He does not expose sin by shouting; He exposes it by enduring it without becoming it.
This is how sin is undone at its root.
And this is why the Cross remains a scandal.
What This Love Costs Let us not romanticize this command.
This love costs everything.
It costs our ego. It costs our sense of entitlement. It costs our cherished narratives of being wronged. It costs the satisfaction of being proven right.
It requires us to relinquish the internal courtroom where we are always the judge and everyone else is on trial.
But what it gives is infinitely greater.
It gives freedom. It gives peace. It gives participation in the very life of God.
This is theosis, not as an abstraction, but as a daily crucifixion of the ego. Becoming like God by grace, not by power, but by mercy.
For God Himself did not save the world by asserting His rights, but by emptying Himself.
The Question That Must Change So perhaps the question we must stop asking is: “What do I deserve?” That question keeps us trapped, calculating, comparing, resenting.
Instead, we must learn to ask: “What does Christ deserve from me?” What does He deserve from my speech? From my judgments? From my reactions? From my treatment of those who oppose, wound, or misunderstand me?
The answer will almost always feel like a small crucifixion.
And that is precisely the point.
A Cross-Shaped Command “Do unto others…” is not a vague moral ideal. It is not sentimental kindness. It is not conflict avoidance. It is a Cross-shaped command.
And it is the only way the Light of Christ continues to shine in a darkened world, not through winning arguments, but through bearing love where it should not exist.
This is how the saints were made. This is how martyrs endured. This is how the Church survives every age of hatred and decay.
God help us live it. Not alone, but together.
