Morning changies for babygirl ⭐️

Mama looks up from her phone after checking the time, watching as bubba is knelt next to the coffee table, quietly doing a puzzle. Every so often baby girl would rub her eyes or her movements would get slower, but she’d start to bounce on her padded bum or shake her head to keep herself awake. Babygirl was getting tired as it was quickly approaching her nap time.

Mama always knows she has to approach nap time carefully, babygirl is quite prone to fighting her naps and it can be on of the tricky sides for mama and her. Mama watches as bubba puts another piece together in her puzzle before picking up her bun bun and rubbing the ears against her nose, deciding now is the time to guide her to start settling for a nap.

Mama shifts on the sofa, getting comfy before patting the cushions gently “Why don’t you come snuggle with mama, sweetheart. Mama needs some bubba snuggles.”

Bubba hesitated for a split second but she stands up from her puzzle and makes her way over to mama, climbing onto her lap and burying her face in her chest, her eyes fluttering closed as mama smoothes her hair back and presses a kiss to her forehead “There’s mama baby.” She pats her bum a few times, checking to see if she needs a change but deciding it can wait till later. She rocks her little one gently, the only noise in the background being the tv and the occasional soft coo from her little one.

After a while mama shifts to the edge of the sofa with her, being slow in her movements “Lets go lay down and get comfy okay darling?” Bubba makes a noise of protest but lets mama guide her upstairs, getting settled onto Mamas bed. She feels bubba legs, noticing she was a bit chilly just in her onesie and picks up the big fluffy blanket on the bed wrapping it around them both. She can feel baby girls eyes looking up at her and looks down at her, trying not to laugh at the little grumpy scrunch in her eyebrows and her tired face. They have this battle every time even though it was clear as day she was tired and needed the sleep.

Mama gets herself situated and picks up bubba favourite bunny paci, clipping it onto the clothes before gently wriggling it into her mouth, taking baby girls pink blanket that smells just like mama and tucking it gently against bubba face and cupping her head against her chest.

She can feel babygirl start to relax, letting out a soft breath thinking today was one of their easier nap times but it is long before bubbas head pops back up, rubbing her eyes and shaking her head no. “not tired mama, no tireds.” She whimpers softly wriggling in her arms “no sleepies.”

Mama nods her head shushing her gently “No sleepies sweetheart I know, just snuggles okay?” She eventually manages to get babygirl to lay back against her but she was still fussing, struggling to settle herself as she reached the point of getting overtired now. Mama holds her close and kisses the top of her head, trying to reassure her everything was okay but bubba wasn’t having any of that today.

Mama just holds her closer, resting her head on top of hers and trying to provide the comfort needed before she feels a gentle pat on her chest and her top being pulled on. She shifts bubba in her arms and holds her face gently “Will milkies help the fussies huh?” She watches as baby girl nods her head yes, letting out another whimper, too little for words right now. “Alright baby.” She shifts her in her arms and making sure she’s still laying down and comfy, lifting her top and guiding her to latch on before rubbing her back gently.

Bubba clings onto mama, getting as close as possible like she could crawl into her skin, her fingers grabbing onto the necklace she gifted mama, the one with the moon and stars so mama would always have a reminder of them with her. Her eyes start to drift shut and her whimpers dying down, just the sounds of her soft suckles filling the room. She rests her hand on Mama chest, feeling her heartbeat and letting it sooth her more.

Mama reaches down and gently rubs her finger down bubba nose, it isn’t long before she finally drifts off whilst nursing, softly snoring against mama chest. Mama reaches down and shifts them slightly to be more comfy and giving baby her paci, a few unsettled noises escaping before she settles back to sleep again.

Little one’s Bedtime essentials ⭐️

There’s nothing better than spending time with babygirl after a long day at work

Mama knew it was going to be a clingy day as soon as Bubba opened her eyes in the morning. Bubba rubs her sleepy face and lets out a soft whimper burying her face into mamas chest.

Mama shushs her gently and rubs her back “It’s okay darling, we have a fussy baby this morning hmm?” Mama holds her baby close till she quietens down. As soon as mama tries to get out the bed babygirl starts up again, clinging onto her too tightly so she can’t get up “I have to go get your baba and a new nappy to change your bum darling.” Bubba quickly shakes her head no her whimpers growing louder again. Mama shushes her and nods her head in understanding, today was definitely a clingy day and her bubba was feeling very small “Alright, you can come with mama.” She kisses her head before they start to move around to start their day.

The rest of the morning goes pretty much the same, mama hasn’t even been able to have a shower yet as babygirl wouldn’t let go of her, let alone let her out her sight. Mama places bubba paci in her mouth after she finished nursing and had fallen asleep, she is hoping she could finally get a second to be able to feed the doggies and make a start on the house work. Mama stealthily manages to wriggle away from under bubba and lay her on the sofa, she pulls a blanket around her so she stays warm, freezing when she sees her start to fidget. Little one fusses for a second but it isn’t long before she settles back down, snuggling into the blanket so only her the top of her face is peaking out and is breathing softly.

Mama can’t help but smile as she smoothes hair out her face that got stuck around her paci, her babygirl really was just the cutest. Mama quietly tip toes out the room and gets to work filling the dogs bowls with food before she manages to clean some of the kitchen. She feels a boop on her hand and turns to see one of the doggies sat by her feet, their tail wagging gently, a toy in their mouth and one paw up begging for some attention. Mama lets out a laugh and squats down “Does one of the other babies wants fuss and some attention now to huh.” She pets the dog gentle before playfully taking the toy from them to start playing.

It has only been about half an hour since Bubba had went down for her nap but she was already awake and panic looking for mama, she gets up the blanket falling to the ground as she rushes to find mama, following the sound of her voice. She sees her in the kitchen playing with one of their doggies and scrunches her nose in annoyance. That was her mama! She doesn’t want to share her today!!

Mama looks up as she hears bubba footsteps, trying not to laugh as she sees the grumpy look on her face “Did you have a nice sleep darling? Mama didn’t realise you woke up yet.” She reaches her arm out and bubba quickly climbs into her lap, making sure the doggie couldn’t get to her mama now “Mama no doggies, my mama!” She fusses in her arms, her legs kicking out. Mama smooths her hair back gently and shushes her “Hey hey it’s okay, mama is right here. Calm down darling, the doggies just wanted to play okay. We have to be a nice girl.” She cups her face and plants a kiss on Bubba nose, that gets a smile out of her and she clings onto mama, the fussies and jealously going away. She loves their doggies, she just didn’t want mama attention on anything but her today.

Mama managers to finally get babygirl to sit in her booster seat at the table and eat a snack whilst she tries to get some laundry in. Bubba had yoghurt and strawberries all over her face from when she tried to eat independently but mama still kept helping her eat some every so often between tasks, she didn’t mind the mess and thought it was quite cute. She finishes folding some washing before placing it in the basket deciding to take it upstairs quickly whilst bubba was distracted with her food. Just as she putting away the basket she can hear babygirl kick up a storm “MAMA! Mamamama!” She quickly makes her way back downstairs and can see babygirl had abandoned her snack, tears trailing down her cheeks as she fights with the straps to get out her chair and get to mama. Mama rushes over and quickly lifts bubba into her lap and holds her close “Shush it’s okay, mama hasn’t gone anywhere. She’s right here darling okay.”

Baby girl hiccups a sticky hand going to rest inside mamas top to sooth and comfort herself “Need mamas, no byebyes.” She sniffles rubbing her snotty nose into mama chest.

Mama nods her head, kissing babygirls temple and bouncing her on her knee gently “Mama will never go away baby it’s okay. No more chores okay, mama will stay right by your side.” She rests her chin on top of her head until she settles down, her and her little one having so much needed quiet time together.

Babygirl and mama ended up spending the rest of the day inseparable, they watched tv and managed to play a little bit but bubba never let go of mama, wanting her close the whole time. It was now the evening and babygirl was sat on the changing table, in a clean nappy and her new star footie jammies that mama treated her to this week. She suckles her paci quietly whilst mama gently brushes her wet hair to braid it for bedtime. Bubba leans into mamas touch her eyes getting sleepy as she gently rubs her blankie under her nose “Love you mama.” She says before letting out a yawn.

Mama smiles as she gently sets the brush down, combing her fingers through little one’s hair to put some leave in conditioner in so it doesn’t get all tangled up whilst she is sleeping. “Mama loves you the mostest baby. And guess what?”

Bubba leans her head back to look up at mama, letting out a little giggle when mama boops her nose “What mamas?”

Mama smiles and cups her cheek, using her other hand to gently stroke up and down babygirls nose “These clingy days are actually mamas favourite days with you darling. She loves it. And I’ll tell you a secret, mama is just as clingy to bubba as you feel to her.”

Little one’s eyes light up and she reaches up to tap mama nose with a giggle “They my favourite to mamas.” She turns around on the table and launches herself into mama arms, hugging her tightly “Everyday is my favourite with you mama.”

Hi there,

Thank you for the ask!

So we actually met on here 😌 I frequented mamas blog a lot when I wanted to feel comforted, but I wasn’t in the community at all. But eventually I ended up plucking up the courage to send her an ask! We then started messaging from there, just chatting about everyday things, our interests and likes etc.

Even though I sent her the ask originally, I’m very shy and anxious so wasn’t really looking for the dynamic we have now, we just started off as really good friends and were talking daily. It did take months but Mama eventually brought this little side of me out more and more and helped me come out my shell, things just fell into place naturally after that and here we are now.

Me and mamas is all about the softness and sweet side of our dynamic but I’ve been thinking about all the little things she does to make me feel loved, that she might not even know herself 🥺 so I thought I’d do a little list of some of them:

Every time mama calls me by my nickname, it just reminds me how special we are to each other.

When mama gives me a hug and kisses my head after every nappy change, she knows I don’t like them so she always makes sure I’m comforted after.

Every time she checks on me, just making sure I’m okay, if I need help with whatever I’m doing or playing with or to just make sure I’m okay. Nothing makes me feel more loved when she snuggles close, smooths my hair back and is just being so gentle to remind me she’s here for anything 🥺

When she matches my silly, even if it’s just playing peek-a-boo or tickling me, it always makes me feel loved that she can just let go with me.

Helping with the little things, if that’s brushing my hair, helping me with my shoes, helping me eat when I get distracted at meal times and always making me not feel silly for needing help from her sometimes 🥺

Every time she lets me nurse, no matter what she’s doing she will always sit down and make time for it when I ask. It just makes me feel so close to her, especially when she runs her finger along my nose and holds me tight. It’s like she’s physically wrapping all her love around me.

Bubba:

* Outdoor play / Indoor play

* Paci / Blankie (stuffie)

* Pull-up / Nappy

* Cuddle time / Playtime

* Naptime / Bedtime

* Toys / Games

* Asking for a nappy change / Letting Mama check whether a nappy change is needed

Mama:

* Newborn-age little / Toddler-age little

* Indoor activities / Outdoor activities

* Cuddle time / Playtime

* Clingy little / Little who thinks she is big

* Giving little a bottle / Letting little one nurse

* Naptime with little one / Bedtime with little one

* Feeding little one / Independent eating

A little question for Bubba: Which brand of paci is your favorite?

Thanks! Have a nice day, both of you!

Hi there, thank you so much for liking our blog 🎀⭐️ we both enjoyed the little game

Bubba ⭐️

⭐️Indoor Play

⭐️Hmm this is a hard one 🤔 blankie I’d say

⭐️Nappies, more so I’m not big enough for pull ups according to mama

⭐️Cuddle Time always

⭐️Don’t like either, but bedtime as I like doing my routine with mama and then the snuggles after till I fall asleep

⭐️Hmm games probably, I like to do activities with mama rather then on my own

⭐️I don’t like either but probably let mama check as I don’t ever know when I need a change anyway 😅

Mama 🎀

🎀Newborn-age little / Toddler-age little: 🤔 this is a difficult one 🤔 I’m gonna have to say both, bubba can be very very little at bedtime and in the morning and I love that. Throughout the day she is definitely toddler age like and we get to have little chats and playtime etc… and again I love that too. So yeah just go with how bubba is feeling like at the time.

🎀 Indoor activities / Outdoor activities: indoor activities

🎀 Cuddle time / Playtime: Cuddle time, I’m a very clingy mama and I love nothing more than spoil little one with all the cuddles and kisses

🎀Clingy little / Little who thinks she is big: Clingy little, I know bubba can be a big and she knows that too, but she also knows that is ok to be clingy and need her mama, there’s nothing more adorable than little one making grabby hands for mama 🥹

🎀Giving little a bottle / Letting little one nurse: Letting little one nurse, always 😌 it’s such a soft and sweet moment.

🎀Naptime with little one / Bedtime with little one: Bedtime, having a little bedtime routine helps both of us settle for the night and this mama gets all the sleepy snuggles 😌

🎀 Feeding little one / Independent eating: Feeding little one, one of the things I love about meal times is when I get a little distracted and bubba asks for help, she knows she is only little and needs mama’s help