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Hey! So Iām pretty confident that Iām lesbian, but is it normal to still think some men are very pretty, especially more androgynous styles like you see in kpop?
hey dear! tbh if youāre only interested in women/nb women romantically/sexually then youāre a lesbian! being able to find some men pretty or attractive is different from actually wanting to date them or have sex with them. i think some guys are nice looking but i know iām not interested in them in any way.Ā
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I believe I'm bi (more often just "sapphic" since I preference girls), but the lesbian post hit the nail on the head. The ONLY guy I could ever imagine being with is a celebrity, married, and literally dead. So, hella unattainable. I'm honestly a bit repulsed by other men due to a previous relationship gone wrong, but my attraction to this celebrity is the only thing holding me back from labeling myself as lesbian. It is a daunting title of course but deep down.. it feels like it could fit?
hey bby!! and yes it def sounds to me like ur a lesbian dealing with coercive heterosexuality so u are def welcome to label urself as a lesbian if u feel like it fits :)
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I 100% know I'm a lesbian... but sometimes I feel like I'm faking it. I never had a crush on girl or had a girlfriend. I know for sure that my attraction has always been towards women though. I just... feel like need to prove it or something...?
hi hon, u donāt need to prove anything to anyone. if u know, then u know, and thatās all there is to it! and donāt let anyone give you trouble for not having had a girlfriend or whatever. u do u :)
hey so iām trying to figure out whether i am a lesbian or not and i think i have had some attraction to men in the past but have now realized that though i might find them hot, i do not want to be with them romantically or sexually. is this valid?
yes hon, that is the most valid
honestly iām super fckin gay and i can occasionally find men hot or cute but still know that iām not at all interested in dating them so. yah ur fine dear :)
what would be a very good reaction if a friend tells me sheās a lesbian? x
āthank you for telling me! i love you a lot and iām glad we are friends and you felt comfortable enough to tell me this!ā
or alternatelyĀ ācool! do u want me to wingwoman/wingman for u with any cute girls?!ā
any way of just being supportive and letting them know you appreciate their friendship :)Ā
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Hey so Iām a closeted lesbian but about a year ago I was forcibly outed to my mom Bc she was snooping through my private things and saw me refer to myself as gay- we had a talk about it in the car where she cried but was accepting. Fast forward - itās almost like she forgot?? She still talks to me like Iām into boys even when we are alone so sheās not covering for me. Iām not even upset really. I feel like I would prefer to stay closeted forever and Idk if thatās weird or wrong of me :/
hey hon, honestly thatās terrible i got forced out to my parents too and it was fucking Awful so i def understand :(Ā
honestly your mom might have a lot of ideas for what she wants ur future to look like (i know my parents do/did) and for most str8 parents they want their daughters to marry a nice man just bc thatās the way they see the world.Ā
thereās not a right or wrong way to feel; itās valid to be frustrated and sad or angry and if you donāt wanna go thru the trouble of coming out again you donāt have to. tbh itās your life and you donāt have to deal with this until youāre ready.
good luck to u hon!!! i promise u will be okay, we will get thru it :)
Hi, sorry to bother you guys but sometimes i feel like Iām faking or forcing my attraction to women. Like maybe I just want to be gay or think itās cool or something so Iām lying to myself if that makes sense. How do I tell if itās for real, and most importantly how do I stop thinking these things if it is? Thanks for reading <3
hey dear no youāre not bothering us! honestly thatās just society telling you that youāre not actually gay because society is very homophobic lol and it might just be a defense mechanism too bc being gay can be really scary at first!Ā
i read something that said your first thought about something is what youāve been conditioned to think, and your second thought is what you actually think. so if you first thinkĀ āiām faking itā but then you thinkĀ ābut actually i think i really like girlsā then you probably do actually like girls! :)Ā
good luck hon!!Ā
I was reading ur FAQ and I wanted to ask which one was created by a transphobe, coercive heterosexuality or compulsive heterosexuality? Sorry if it's really obvious
sorry! i believe compulsive heterosexuality, the original term, was created by some transphobic lesbian. comp het is still a pretty popular term so u might see it around the blog sometimes but the 2 refer to the same phenomenon; we try to use coercive heterosexuality to substitute for it bc of the history of the termĀ ācompulsive heterosexualityā but they mean the same thing!Ā
