#mmmmmmmmmmm yeah

oh shit anon that made me smile fuck

well

i'm extremely open about being sexual because i feel like there is a stigma against being cute and owning your sexuality 

there's a stereotype that comes with that and its a really negative and harmful stereotype

people are always close minded and hyper-critical even though my sexuality has nothing to do with them. i've been subjected to unwanted attention, people have made so many assumptions, and its a daily struggle to deal with the "am i doing the right thing by being open" because of back lash i get

believe it or not i've lost friends because im willing to talk about vaginas and say words like vagina and answer sexual questions for others benefit without sugar coating everything and shaming people for exploration or sexual ownership

i have never told someone to be more or less sexual and i've never addressed other peoples sexuality even when prompted because thats not my place, yet for some reason people who are not me nor understand me nor have gone through what i've gone through feel like its okay to judge me for being a sexual being and enjoying owning my body the way that no one else can